In his cult classic Urban Aboriginals, kink historian and leather philosopher Geoff Mains went deep into the rituals of gay male connection. For Mains, bodily fluids were more than just physical—they were sacred offerings, a shared language of desire and devotion. He wrote:
“The sharing of body fluids is perhaps the most intimate of all human acts… a communion that transcends the symbolic, becoming biological.”
In this view, acts like a golden shower weren’t merely kink—they were acts of erotic trust and surrender. In a world that often demands we hide our hungers, this was liberation. At the HaPenis Project, we honour Mains’ vision: that sex can be ceremony, and pleasure a way of coming home to our bodies, together. – Geoff Mains
