Deeply Emotional

According to the New York Times, the rise of the bromance signifies a significant shift in the way young men perceive and engage in close friendships. As homophobia diminishes and societal attitudes toward emotional expression evolve, straight young men are increasingly willing to embrace the intimacy, support, and emotional connection that bromances offer. This changing landscape not only enriches individual lives but also contributes to a more inclusive and compassionate society where friendship knows no boundaries. – Source

Their article is based on research from the University of Winchester who were interested in understanding why lots of young men are socially encouraged to enjoy deep, emotional and physically intimate bromance. To investigate this, the researchers conducted interviews with 30 heterosexual men studying sports degrees at university. The study aimed to examine what the men understood bromances to be, to what extent they privileged the relationship, and how they were enacted. Participants were asked about their involvement in and openness to secret sharing, emotional intimacy, bed sharing, nudity and kissing other men. An analysis of the results showed that each of the 30 men had had at least one bromance friend at some point in time. The men were unanimous in describing what the bromance entailed, and how it positively impacted their lives. They agreed that deep emotional disclosure is essential in bromance. Many of the men surveyed noted that they could only fully discuss matters such as health issues or sexual desires in complete confidence with their bromantic friends, and not with family or girlfriends. The results indicate that bromance have become widespread in university culture, and that men see these relationships as real and not a fantasy, according to the researchers. The team is now urging academics to see bromances as an important factor in the everyday lives of men. Dr Stefan Robinson, lead author of the study, said: ‘They were clear that a bromance offers a deep sense of unburdened disclosure and emotionality based on trust and love. For those dealing with depressive symptoms or social anxieties, bromances may offer a way forward and a coping strategy.’

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9 Replies to “Deeply Emotional”

This is great news for all men, and by extension, all of society. For the last few decades the availability of men only places has been decreasing precipitously. We are at the point now, where there is total “equality” for men and women in all areas of life, from Boy Scouts to the board room to sports locker rooms. No one seems to have noticed that the social and psychological collateral damage presently suffered by men has increase in proportion to this phenomenon.
For this reason I am ecstatic that straight men, bi men, gay men, trans men have all, to a growing degree, embraced the “bromance” construct as an acceptable relationship that all men can benefit from.

After seeing Mr. Cox’s request to place videos vertically, I’d like to throw in my own to put ALL videos vertical and in color if possible. They’re much more entertaining!
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This is such a useful section for men, and young men in particular. I remember during my single sex school days and my years studying, that I was emotionally close to a number of other young people of my own age. These relationships, in certain instances, were amazingly close and highly valued by both myself and others. There was a real emotional gap when I adopted the heteronormative role expected of me resulting in me not losing these friendships but them becoming a lot less close, especially when they became involved in monogamous relationships with women. This is such a brilliantly warm and accepting website, thanks to Seb and all involved.

Handsome devils. 😘

Most likely this will change the nature of male-female relationships. If I can basically just sit down with the boys and a straight porno whenever I’m aroused. Though she’ll have to get used to it.

It won’t handle everything, but this is how my friends and I dealt with our needs.