A young man asked on the old site. Can men have wet dreams about real men? Does this mean I am gay?
What a great question.
1-Having a dream doesn’t make anything tangible.
2-Having actual sex with a person of the same sex won’t make you gay just as much as having straight sex won’t make you straight????
Geeezus people…get over yourself. What is missing here is the fact that young men aren’t educated by real men about sexuality and I am not talking physical…but as a mentor. When I was young I resisted being gay. One time I had a wet dream with a woman in it and I was like YAAAA I am not gay lol…WRONG lol. But I believe that 99% of wet dreams are homosexual based and that straight guys are afraid to acknowledge this fact. I have many wet dreams where I am sucking my own dick (what does that mean lol) and in the end…it’s a wet dream…YAAAA. As men, – BCHNCA
99 times out of a 100, the person who asks the question “Am I gay because a, b, and c…” already knows the answer to the question. He worries because he knows the answer is yes, and he wants to hear that he’s wrong. Giving him notions of “no it doesn’t mean you’re gay, there are no labels, because you can be anything you want…” is simply false information. The majority of us can’t be anything we want.
I feel that “you can be anything you want” is simply code for “it’s ok to be gay”, so why not just say that instead?
Ok so you have wet dreams of sex with real men! Good for you! Enjoy them! Now, your next task is to find yourself a real man and realize your dreams! Find several real men!
So many incels out there grow old a bitter without ever knowing the intimate touch of another human being. You my friend, are lucky to be a man-craving homo. Because you have a multitude of options that straight men lack. Go in the direction you cock points, forward and up. It’s your compass to happiness. – Ben
For those who like ’em hairy.
Does anyone have more information about workingg out naked at the YMCA? In the pic vintage YMCA-gym 1950s all the guys in the gym are naked. I knew about swimming naked. I never heard of the gym/workout area being used while naked. Was this the norm back then? When did it stop? I thought that the communal showers were the pinnacle of masculinity and now I see these men in the pic…wow!
You said it Ben! The only really real thing is the real thing: The intimate touch of another male human being, and the smell of him, and the taste, and the sight, and the sound.