I consider myself a completely straight male but I must admit I have had a total of 3 homosexual encounters, all with the same guy (another straight friend) and within the span of a week. The first time I was really really drunk and ended up crashing at his place and I thought “I’m horny, why the hell not?” and made the first move. The second time I don’t think involved any substances, and the third time I was f’ed up on something I can’t recall too clearly. And before anyone can say that illicit substances can lead to bad decision-making, I want to mention I’ve since cleaned up my act quite a bit. I’m not trying to make excuses or anything but I think it’s noteworthy that I was extremely sexually frustrated at the time, recently having ended things with a friends with benefits. Also, I knew this friend found me attractive and I suppose that was a turn on to some degree. A.NoN
I’m in my 50s and straight, but had a few in my early teens way back in the 70s. A buddy talked me into stripping naked and we fooled around (mostly hand stuff). It was my first sexual encounter. I wasn’t attracted to him or other guys but it felt too good to stop, so I did it with him a few times and other guys I met for a couple of years. Always felt guilty as hell afterwards. But as soon as I was horny I was up for it again. Started dating girls not long after and never went back to guys or even considered it. I know a few other guys who said they did the same. Women too. You hit puberty and you’re overwhelmed with hormones, so you’re open to feeling ANYone’s touch. Chalk it up to young experimentation. 😉jk90us
I agree with you and have always been intrigued by dudes who describe themselves as bi.
Only an individual can define themselves brother. A.Non says he is straight that means he is straight. Men need men. They do not ever require labels. As a gay dude myself, it seems like its often gay dudes that want to label others. Why exactly is that brother? I promise you when you are 100% comfortable and confident in your own skin and no longer give a rip what anyone thinks, you will no longer need to label yourself or others.
I am saying this without malice. I say this with love. For you have within you everything you need to release your full potential in this life. No animosity is indicated here.
Personally, I have discovered that the more my soul is free of the chains my own brain puts on it, the easier it is to love and accept myself and others.
Men have always needed men throughout our history as a species. Period. This is no controversy. End of story. The men who share on this site are amazingly brave. It is so incredibly wonderful to see so many men discover it is actually OK to be a man. Why weren’t we taught this? Native people teach it. We have lost some of our identity as men living in “civilization”.
Peace, love and HaPenis brother.
GWI
Gay While Intoxicated
Its a real thing…happens to many men.
You’re only truly gay if you jerk off thinking about your drunk gay sex, while sober.
I used to consider yeself completely straight but when I did a ‘certain hard drug’ (don’t real;y want to say whit it was) for the first time with another guy I was ‘to the moon’ and wanted to suck his dick. Supposedly he was straight too but on hindsight I think he set me/us up with this drug because of certain tell-tale signs.
At any rate, we ended up 69 and trying other things a few times later on this drug.
I stopped doing it but I have huge temptations often to do it again with other men using the stuff.
I like men who have had a drink, they will do most anything!
We had been to Hampstead Heath after the pub and met a guy we had seen many times in the pub, we called him Mr Foot as his dick was enormous. Well we mucked about and he asked us to go back with him. The three of us in the bed and he is huge! I get the prize and he enters me…a fantastic fuck with a good load deep inside. Exhausted we fall asleep and I wake up next morning with his dick still deep inside me. I slowly roll away to view the beautiful spec Ian and that is just the dick. He was a very handsome man and always sought after.
Again another real story.
This is for “A non” – three times is the charm, man – you are no longer completely straight. Welcome to the land of bisexuality. You are a very large group and they accept all “cummers.” As an older, totally gay man, I really think guys who can get hard and ejaculate with both women and men are – as the song says – “the luckiest people in the world.” Go with it, don’t make excuses for it – and try it with a guy who’s completely gay. We can be very affectionate.