I so enjoy reading the comments and personal histories of the many men who generously offer them as a universal affirmation of our brotherhood. In this same vein, I came across this very perceptive and […]
Category: sacred journey
I Am What I Am
I grew up in a time where I was a closet homosexual. That was what I called myself. I had a girlfriend, and I did the whole double life thing. I was a psychotherapist in the […]
Cowboy Parking
Surround yourself with those who lust in you, those who light you up and inspire you. Life is too short to be anything but HaPenis. More KnoBledgeDon’t You Know Yet?rumiYour Poem by CastroCastroA February CollectivegalleryDimitris […]
What I Have Missed
I am a 69 year old male who loves his wife. However, like others, we no longer have sex. She has some health issues that discourage her and take away her interest. I recently met […]
The HaPenis Prize
“Having a penis can be like having an illusory prize dangled in front of you. It symbolizes a historical birthright to power, respect and pride.” Grayson Perry, The Descent of Man More KnoBledgeBecoming A GentlemanBrosexualBathing […]
Peace & Light
Gay mens true role in the highest sense is to be peacemakers and light bringers. Some of my ideas and beliefs are from kabbalah. One of the ideas is that the universe-the big bang, happened […]
Mystical Communion
Getting older (early fifties) has not meant that the experience of sexuality, passion and desire has dissipated and petered out. On the contrary, advancing age has brought unexpected insights and surprises; new personal depth and […]
A Manhood Blast
I’m a married man in my 50’s. I love my wife and family and I’ve been always attracted to men, since I was a kid. I have come to terms with my masculinity: I feel […]
Sacred Gay Sex
For gay men, finding sacredness in sexuality involves considering a deeper sense of respect, and mindfulness in their sexual encounters. Engage in meaningful conversations about desires, boundaries, and intentions before engaging in sexual activity. Recognize […]
Physical Intimacy
I have found that long overdue safe place. Every bit of it: warm, kind attentive, soft, constantly present and no intruding. We have the most wonderful talks full of laughter and hot sex crowned with […]
Massages By Men
My road to acceptance of my desire for contact with other men has been a decade long progression. Fear of bringing a disease home to my wife kept me to just receiving head while wearing […]
Embracing Homosexuality
I never thought being gay was being my own man until I was in my twenties and then I realized that as a Blackman I had to earn my place , now that the years […]