“Not Gay” 

In 2015, University of California, gender and sexuality professor Jane Ward published a book called “Not Gay: Sex Between Straight White […]

The Brother-In-Law

I have been a dedicated wanker all my life. My best wank ever happened quite unexpectedly. I didn’t see a lot of […]

Natural Sexuality

When a guy gets a charge from looking at other guy’s butts, I’d say it’s the first stage of him being […]

str8 as an arrow

I’m straight as an arrow too – my whole quiver is all a-quiver with the thought of other straight arrows – […]

Gay 4 Str8 Massage

In relation to gay massage being good for straight men, I would say it depends on who is giving the massage […]

The Wrestling

I first had an idea I might also be attracted to other guys when I was in college. I shared a […]

Prostate Gay Bi Str8

I am a gay man, who is a top, so my butt never plays a part in sex. A friend showed […]

How Do I Know?

I am 21 years old and I am what you might call, bi curious. I have only admitted that I was questioning my own […]

Plato & Leonardo

Dear Lady, I deduce from your letter that your child is homosexual. I am very impressed by the fact that you […]

St Patrick’s Day 2023

May your day be full of good company, bold laughter, and the freedom to be your truest self. May you raise […]

Sexual Categories

i agree. we have evolved to the point where sexual categories of this sort just don’t cut it anymore. we are […]

God’s Flute

We need to become a Penis in the Sun´s hand. We need for the earth to sing through our pores and eyes. […]

An Epiphany

I’m 66. For most of my life I told myself that I was not gay. I could find attraction in men […]

A Sexual Awakening

Hi Seb,  Just wanted to drop a note. I came across your site one day while surfing bored at work. It […]