No matter how “alpha” a guy may present, many men are pretty fragile inside. Outward strength and toughness does not necessarily reflect what’s going on at the deeper level. In fact, the more machismo a man projects, the more emotionally fragile he might actually be. A lack of self-confidence, self-assurance and self-love can hit the best of us. I can certainly relate to the scared little boy inside the adult man! Self-doubt, self-questioning and uncertainty is the norm for many, despite any outward show of confidence or bravado. So let’s remain open and kind to each other, especially towards the outwardly big, strong men. HugH
More wise words from our brother, Hugh. Thank you sir. Its true. Many Men are like grown up little boys. it seems the “well adjusted” ones are less common than in the past. I do not know why that is. I do know that kindness and love are human superpowers that we have to chose to use as tools in life. Show your admiration to other men. They won’t bite I promise. In fact, you may actually have some fun times as a result. Hugh is spot on about the overly macho demeanour of some. To me this is an advertisement to the world of their insecurities, not their prowess. They just are not aware of this. Be patient with them and show kindness. I’ve never known a man who didn’t soften up with time. Most men are not appreciated it seems. Shameful. Without Men our species would have gone extinct. For some it could just be the inflated feathers peacock aspect of us-we have to show how much we are to other men. Often, nearly immediately, you will see the true person behind the feathers shown off. Be a God Man and express to others what is important. Love. You won’t be disappointed.
HaPenis to all.
Thank you again brother Hugh. – John N
Sometimes keeping a strong facade is necessary for survival, especially during hard times. As the saying goes
”Strong men create good times,
good times create weak men,
weak men create hard times,
hard times create strong men.”
Yes it’s the favorite slogan of American alt-Right, but it’s nonetheless true. The machismo culture that exists in many countries is due to living through hard times, and in others it’s a remnant. A real alpha male knows the balance between a strong exterior and a softer, compassionate interior. He lets both rule his decisions, and other men recognize that, and flock to him. Ben T
More wise words from our brother, Hugh.
Thank you sir.
Its true. Many Men are like grown up little boys. it seems the “well adjusted” ones are less common than in the past.
I do not know why that is.
I do know that kindness and love are human superpowers that we have to chose to use as tools in life.
Show your admiration to other men. They won’t bite I promise. In fact, you may actually have some fun times as a result.
Hugh is spot on about the overly macho demeanor of some.
To me this is an advertisement to the world of their insecurities, not their prowess. They just are not aware of this. Be patient with them and show kindness. I’ve never known a man who didn’t soften up with time. Most men are not appreciated it seems. Shameful. Without Men our species would have gone extinct.
For some it could just be the inflated feathers peacock aspect of us-we have to show how much we are to other men. Often, nearly immediately, you will see the true person behind the feathers shown off.
Be a God Man and express to others what is important. Love. You won’t be disappointed.
HaPenis to all.
Thank you again brother Hugh.
Sometimes keeping a strong facade is necessary for survival, especially during hard times. As the saying goes
”Strong men create good times,
good times create weak men,
weak men create hard times,
hard times create strong men.”
Yes it’s the favorite slogan of American alt-Right, but it’s nonetheless true. The machismo culture that exists in many countries is due to living through hard times, and in others it’s a remnant. A real alpha male knows the balance between a strong exterior and a softer, compassionate interior. He lets both rule his decisions, and other men recognize that, and flock to him.
Always wanted to be in a ‘train’ like the those guys in the pic. I’d even wear a sombrero.
I just found your site and not sure how I got there, but I’ve been very busy checking it all out. I’m sure that no one comes close. I’ve been on my computer for a few days only stopping to get off. I have been off the seen for twenty years taking care of family, but now I’m free to see it all. Things have really changed since 2005 with it all on line and with all the sites. So I guess pleasing your self is at your wrist. You do have to get away sometimes, but I can always get back to my own pleasure. Thanks for your being there. K.F.
Welcome to The HaPenis, Kim
Big strong guys milked 💦💦
I agree HugH. Very well said. That “fragility” also helps make a good “alpha” lover great in bed!