Sonnet 18

Shall I compare thee to a summer’s day?Thou art more lovely and more temperate:Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May,And summer’s lease hath all too short […]

Sacred Male Mythos

It wasn’t long after I came out, that I realized that, at least in my view, man on man sex was significantly different than regular straight sex. There […]

HaPenis At 45?

I can very much identify with men who have taken a long time to finally accept who they are. I’m a case in point. Growing up in mid-century […]

Sex+Spirit = One

Roderick, your commentary on men’s relationships with other men really spoke to me. In the 30 years I’ve been a sexually active gay man, I have had the […]

Men Need Men

I’ve spent over 20 years studying male-male interaction through a variety of past societies. I have concluded that the more stable societies, those with a successful* male work […]

Sensual Full-Body

I practiced sensual full-body massage for almost 20 years, here in Toronto. Shortly after I came out at 45, I did a weekend workshop with the Body Electric […]

Wisdom of the Cock

I have always found that to be the case. There are times when you just want him to relax but the bugger won’t cooperate, despite your efforts. And […]

Phallic Brotherhood

We form a Brotherhood. Phallic Brotherhood which is governed by the desire of the flesh. The smell of male bodies in action, the mixture of sweat, spit, Cocks […]

A Multi-Vitamin

Over time, professionals in both physical and mental health have, sometimes grudgingly, had to agree that semen is beneficial in so many ways, on so many levels, as […]

The Greatest Beauty

Seb – I so appreciate the manner in which you represent all men, especially those of us who are mature in years and experience. You have such respect […]

A Message From Leo

Seb, I just logged on to your site to show yet another good friend the amazing space that is the HaPenis Project. I started stumbling across refences to your […]