For me, the homo-emotional preference towards men is closely linked with the homoerotic attraction of the full male body. Men of […]
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Too Much Porn?
Sometimes I wonder whether we have access to too much porn and too easily these days. When I was younger, porn […]
Rugger HugHer
Before rushing off on holiday, a friend asked me to look after a holdall containing the strips of his amateur rugby […]
Nipple Stimulation
According to research reported in Men’s Health, about 50% of men are sexually aroused by stimulation of their nipples, which contain […]
The Ride of Your Life
One of the great pleasures of sexual contact between men is sharing every part of your body with your partner. For […]
Midnight Cowboy Review
One of the most moving stories about the bond between two men is related in the film “Midnight Cowboy”, based on […]
Radical Friendliness
In his book “The Adventure: A Practical Guide to Spiritual Awakening”, Steve Taylor recommends the practice which he has termed “radical […]
The Last Miners
Such a poignant and touching documentary. The bond of brotherhood, care and love between the men is so genuine and strong. […]
More Valuable?
A little while alone in your room will prove more valuable than anything else that could ever be given you. – […]
With Greater Maturity
As I enter my late-50s, I am pleased to find that my taste in men has aged with me. In my […]
One Last Dance
The British philosopher Alan Watts (1915-1973) viewed life as a continuous flow of energy, a dance within an ever-changing world. As […]
Plumber’s Crack or Builder’s Bum?
The term “plumber’s crack” refers to the unintentional exposure of a bloke’s buttocks, typically seen when their pants or trousers slip […]
Shirt Lifter
I’m trying to find the Origin and History of the term “Shirt Lifter”. I know it was used in Australia and here […]
The Secret Anus
From childhood, boys are taught that their torsos are open for public display, whether at the swimming-pool, beach or on a […]