I am a man who considers myself to be essentially 100% str8 but I have slept with lots of men and have recently been seeing a man in a full-blown relationship. When I say I am str8 I mean that I am not physically attracted to men at all. However I am ‘sexually’ attracted to men. I dumped my last girlfriend (I have usually had two relationships at once – with a man and a woman) because my male lover satisfied me more. I am openly ‘bi-sexual’ but no one understands if I tell them I’m str8 but sometimes prefer gay sex. For me being adventurous and having relaxed fun with sex is more important than someone’s gender. I will look back here in a short while to see if anyone has identified with this. – Dave
Guys should worry less about what they are and more about who they are with and making it a good experience right then, and not stress on what it “means.” What good sex means is that you are able to enjoy a connection with another person, and the physical equipment of the bodies involved, well, so? I wish I could have sex with a woman now and then but I have sex with guys, and I am not willing to lie to a woman (or anyone) to get them to have sex, and virtually all women will stop cold on learning you have sex with men. Does it mean I am less gay that I would like to have sex with women now and then? Does it make a guy less straight if he would like to have sex with a guy now and then? Maybe maybe not, I think it depends on your definitions of gay and straight, and as far as I am concerned I just am over that issue. I do what any real man does and that is I have the sex I want to have. What others think about my sex, well, that is no concern of mine. – David
My view is that we are all human sexual. Not only is sexuality a sliding scale that is difficult to categorise into gay/bi/straight, but it is also capable of sliding back and forth in a single person’s lifetime. If we can all accept that we are human sexual, there is no need for categorising and therefore no “otherness” that fosters intolerance of other people’s category. Damon
I’m 100% gay, the only thing I ever did with a female was when I was 16. The terms, straight, gay and bisexual are societal norms, or what one should identify as. My question is why ? There is nothing wrong if a guy want’s to have fun with another guy, whether it be masturbation or a full on f@@k. So many men would learn so much about themselves if they dipped their toes into man on man sex, it does not make you gay, you are just admitting to yourself that you enjoy sex with a man as you do with a woman. Most guys have NOT had a real orgasm until they have had their prostates worked to ejaculation, that alone is one of the most amazing experiences of any mans life, regardless of what you consider yourself to be. Just be open and enjoy. Take my word guys, you will shoot like a rocket.- Brett
Thank you David, Damon and Brett for your Frank and enlightening thoughts. I identify as straight, am married to a woman but know that I am sexually curious about other men’s bodies. I regularly meet online with other men to have sexual conversations and masturbate together. Watching other men enjoy their bodies and react to my action to arouse them and me is a huge privilege. It has increased my confidence and has sparked a different journey of sexual expression. The next step is a big one, to be naked with another man in the same room. I am naturally risk averse, but know I need to learn more and face my fears. My desire to touch and taste another man’s body grows stronger as I become older. Help to keep myself safe would be valuable advice that I hope can emerge from my interactions on this site in time.
Totally enjoy this site! All the different thoughts of men from all over the world. Thank you
Bless You Jim
Thanx Mr Cocks, for gathering a world full of men who understand male sexuality to be exactly as it is, enlightened and freed from social and religious strictures, an animalistic need for sexual pleasure, described by Dave David Damon and Brett
Dave, you have hit it right on the prostate. There is something about mansex that is completely understanding, knowing and safe that cannot be beaten. Enjoy!
My view is that we are all human sexual. Not only is sexuality a sliding scale that is difficult to categorise into gay/bi/straight, but it is also capable of sliding back and forth in a single person’s lifetime. If we can all accept that we are human sexual, there is no need for categorising and therefore no “otherness” that fosters intolerance of other people’s category.
Yep. I get it. I consider myself to have a perfectly normal healthy sexual appetite for both women and men. The sex with each, for me, has a different quality. Not better or worse, but different. Me acting as prime agent proactive and somewhat dominating – the giver in MF, seemingly receiving little in return, and then in MM sex, me as an equal partner both receiving and giving. Psychologically/emotionally, I have found those two poles worlds apart. Both satisfying in their own way, but different. The arse pound on my P-spot however is something entirely delightful. The raw animal of fucking a man-hole utterly addictive. But so too is a wet pussy and tits in your face…. What’s a bouy to do but to lap up each delicious opportunity to feast at such diversity.
Thank You BoB
Hey man i know i can relate in the opposite sense, im commonly referred to as gay cause i guess sometimes i can act that way. But gender doesn’t bother me when it comes to sexual activity. Guys sometimes turn me on but I have never tried with a girl so have no idea what one is capable of in the bedroom…