I took Citolapram (Celexa). The doctor said it might mean “possibly some experience of ED”. My wife said that would be a good thing to “give her a rest”. Well, It was a FUCKING nightmare and worse than the anxiety/depression. I came off them after about 2 1/2 years and took a long time to get back to normal – partly I suspect due to the psychological wounding of not being able to respond in the way I used to. I put on weight and the Endocrinologist said my high blood pressure and weight issue was the problem, not the Citolapram. Prescribed Viagra to “get back on the bike again” and regain confidence. What bullshit. What a fucking crime to take away a man’s hard-on….. it has taken many changes in my life, I found exercise, sunbathing nude, swimming and dangling in the showers with other blokes, diet, frequent eating of my own Cum, not too much booze and a lot of “heart to hearts” with my wife to get back to a happy, horny self…. fuck their nonsense. Those drugs are no answer. There are apparently newer medications that don’t cause that side effect, but I suspect mainstream counselling is failing to recognise the deep importance to a man’s wellbeing of sex and a hard cock. My wife writes it off as childish boy-selfishness. But mother’s should be telling their daughters if you want your marriage to last, suck your husbands dick…often. To reverse this tide of male depression sweeping the modern world you have to acknowledge who and what we are. Like all blokes, I think about sex, I like having sex, I like a good wank and I appreciate another man’s interest in the same. I like another hard dick as much as my own and every now and then enjoy mixing it up. My (on balance) great relationship with my wife is perhaps the most treasured and precious long-term emotionally stabilising sex I have ever enjoyed and ever wish for – but even there, she doesn’t fully understand my drive which I think all men feel. She tries, bless her, and she is sooo HOT in the process. But as for the antidepressant drugs…be very engaged in questioning your doctor and pro-active in working out alternative solutions if possible. Men offer that dick on dick understanding of each other’s needs…. and even if it is not physical between us, and even if it is physical between us, at least we understand. Thanks for the site Seb.
