Being gay does indeed not mean being feminine. It means you are attracted to masculinity, even when you are masculine. Just because you are effeminate does not mean you are gay. I believe that truly gay men are not effeminate at all. In fact, they are more of a man than many heterosexual males I know. To be gay means you deeply understand what it’s like to be a man and you deeply love and care for members of your own sex because of it.
That you fully grasp your masculinity and all that comes with it: horniness, hairiness, sweat, beards, holes, dicks, chests, biceps, etc. Yes, it is about getting turned on by the same sex, but when I see a beefy stud looking in another man’s eyes with a look of love – it’s not necessarily lusting – it’s a look of “I get you, man”. I love you and I will love you like a man. I will eat your hole because I want you to feel good like a man. I will kiss you and have our beards rub so you know I deeply want you to feel my love. I may lust over your fucking beautiful body, but I also want you to know that your manliness is truly what I love and care for. Jim Hanson
Yes
I can’t help but love men
To use as you like…
Let me at it