Solo Sexuality

I’m a married man and have to say how lucky I am to have a supportive spouse that absolutely doesn’t mind […]

Under My Umbrella

I wish this site was here years ago when I was growing up. Maybe I wouldn’t have spent all those years […]

Kinbaku Shibari

Kinbaku and Shibari are both Japanese rope bondage practices that involve intricate tying techniques. While the terms are sometimes used interchangeably, […]

50% Brits Not Heterosexual

According to A British Government Survey 50% of Young Brits are not exclusively heterosexual. Half of young Brits say they are ‘not […]

The Laughing Flame

…The love of his youth Appeared as in a dream And this ageing lover Went mad with love. The youth robbed […]

Dear Companions

“I am HaPenis even before I have a reason. I am full of Light even before the sky Can greet the […]

Powerful Weapons

“Sex is, directly or indirectly, the most powerful weapon in the armoury of the Magician; and precisely because there is no […]

Love Many

You can love as many people as you want – that does not mean one day you will go bankrupt, and […]

Staying Solo

I’m not religious though I was raised Catholic. But I haven’t had any type of partnered sex since I was 34, […]

Out (Of The Darkness)

I too have a wonderful wife who maintains a wonderful family life that I treasure. There are absolutely no secrets between […]

Daddy Dick

The subject tonight is Daddy Dick And for tomorrow night as well, As a matter of fact I know of no […]

The Seraphim

We, who are parts of Adam, heard with him The song of angels and of seraphim. Our memory, though dull and […]

Dionysian Buddhism

I have a friend who as a young man was very handsome and flirty, but he ran away from romantic encounters […]

Analogous Climax

“Now sex is justly hallowed in this sense, that it is the eternal fire of the race… But the spiritual flower […]

Arse Vibrancy

Derived from Old English, “arse” is such a great sounding word. I love the resonance of rolling the “ar” before resolving […]