I like to have an emotional connection with the person giving me a massage. i like hard thorough massage that is done slowly over a long period of time. i like to feel the energy build up. i like the massage to be done with a lot of passion and care. i like it to be a mix between sensual and hard. i want the buildup to be very strong and very powerful leading up to a very climatic end that lasts forever and ever and ever. – Source
My manhood needs a touch from someone that comes from a warm and respectful place. My manhood needs to trust your touch, especially since he’s cut. My manhood connects with you when you connect with me. I like my manhood to have lubrication. Silicone here, please. – Source
Sensitively at first, allowing me to close my eyes and catch my breath and arrive because I’m always rushing around – so someone who can touch me into stillness. I like a hand that feels strong and purposeful, knowing how to respond to what is happening to me, intuition and exploration to take us both to the next level of connection – corny, I know but it’s all about connection…- Source
I love a nice slow sensual buildup first and then gentle strokes first using warm oil before grasping a bit firmer with my balls being cupped and stroked gently at the same time. It’s amazing to be edged with strokes stopping and starting, quickening and slowing. Ongoing communication with the masseur is key as is mutual appreciation and respect. Feeling comfortable enough to be completely uninhibited and open in front of someone is very special also and pretty rare. – Source
I’m looking again at the picture of this beautiful bearded man with his long thick cock and imagining what my “manhood needs” would be if I was there naked, or almost naked, beside him. I would want to fuck him and be fucked by him. I can imagine kissing his lips, overgrown with fur, likewise what must be his hairy arse that I yearn to fuck; but just as vividly, I feel his forested lips sucking my cock (note: it was thrilling to be sucked off by a guy with a prickly beard in Sydney a few weeks ago), then licking and kissing my arse hole as he tickles me with his thicket before he deeply penetrates me once that drowsy cock of his arises with desire to fuck me! A discussion I’m reading about Arab-Islamic views of male-male sex got me thinking about my own “top-bottom” needs, which are equally strong. In his great book “A Culture of Ambiguity,” Thomas Bauer talks about the way medieval Arab poets who experienced love for young men, relationships where they were the “tops,” which was the conventionally acceptable role for a mature man with either a woman or a boy, continued to write love poetry to those same youngsters when they themselves matured and grew their own beards, i.e., became themselves men who might have expected to be the “tops” in relationships with their older, male lovers. There is a whole genre of poems Bauer calls “apologetic epigrams on the beard’s growth.” He quotes one example by a poet from the late 11th-early 12th century (p.197): “They said, when they saw whom I love/ Doesn’t it irritate you that he grows a beard?/ But they are blind! If they really looked at the matter/ How soon they would let go of their censure!/ Because he who is at home in a bare landscape, /Will not go elsewhere when the spring flowers start to blossom.” Until our current age, dominated by Western, either/or categories that have also been adopted by fundamentalist Muslim reformers, Arab men had no problem with the “ambiguity” of being the active/top or passive/bottom in relationships with their male lovers. I wish the Romeos I am encountering this afternoon on my dating app were the same!
I do not know the sexual orientation of the many men who have sucked my cock at gloryholes, but in my experience men are MUCH better cocksuckers than most women. Fortunately for me, and probably not coincidentally, the woman I am married to is the only woman who has sucked my cock as well as a man, and the only woman to swallow my cum – eagerly!
My manhood needs attention and devotion daily therefore it gets what it deserves
Daddy, your cock deserves another man’s lips and tongue, or maybe two, at least one other pair of skillful loving hands. And If you stuck your prodigious God all the way up my ass I could give you a blow job.
I don’t know how it would be possible not to give the man with the savage unkempt beard and doleful eyes, the beautiful body sprinkled with hair, and the long, alluringly sorrowful, thick long cut cock with its charming head in the photo at the top of this posting everything that they need. The photo itself is teaching us to be sensual as the right way to be truly sexual, as men who desire and want to be desired by men.
I dunno what it is, but I have always gotten aroused by the sight of foreskin on a penis. Maybe because the first man I ever gave head to had an uncircumsized cock. And it was great. But truth be told, I don’t enjoy getting blown as much. And that’s because….wait for it….most gay guys are lousy cocksuckers. I’m sure this will enrage many who have an inflated self-concept so far as fellatio is concerned, but it’s true. I learned my ‘gift’ from watching straight porn (Swedish Erotica) and reading “The Sensuous Woman”. They had an entire passage dedicated to how to give a man a pleasurable blowjob. BTW: Whenever I’ve had a prelude to sucking dick,, I have always gotten compliments about my gentle hands and how sensually I caressed their members. If gay men could just learn how to be sensual, and not just sexual, their ‘conquests’ would have more meaning as well as pleasure for all involved. Just saying.
Thank You sturgiscub, words of wisdom
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That has been my experience as well brother.
Straight guys give the best head. no contest.