I came across your site and have been reading everything. I’ve wondered about male anal orgasm before, but couldn’t find much info. I am straight, but I’ve always enjoyed anal stimulation. I haven’t been with many women who had an interest in it, either giving or receiving, so it’s been something that I explored on my own. At one point, I had a nice dildo that a girlfriend had left at my place. I played with that when I had the chance, but it wasn’t here for long before she retrieved it. I was close to an orgasm once with that thing, butt I had a slight elbow injury a the time and had to stop. I’m thinking about letting a guy fuck me, but I dont want it to be all lovey dovey or anything because that would turn me off. I’m not attracted to men, I just want to be fucked. My question is, what would gay/bi guys think about that? I would need to find a mostly straight acting guy that just wanted to get to it. Have any suggestions? – Gary
Gary – you just described every FWB hookup situation between married men. I’ve often described nsa sex between straight-identifying men like helping a buddy move furniture. You do it as a favor or out of friendship, not love. The same can apply to a blow job or fuck. It’s just 2 guys getting off and because guys know what turns another man on it’s very efficient. That situation worked for years for me. But, a funny thing happened. Me and another married man became close friends then best friends. Then we decided that since our sex was so good we wouldn’t fool around with any other FWB ….. long story short, he’s now my husband. Maybe we weren’t as straight as we though even though we had over 70 years of combined marriages between us. You never know, buddy. – JoE
Straight guys that want gay sex may be some kind of label/identity issue, but there are straight men that love butt stuff. If there’s s a man that wants butt stuff from a woman that knows how to do butt stuff well, they’re a straight guy that likes butt stuff. I knew a guy like that once. He was my female friend’s girlfriend. He was totally manly and a little metro, a huge ally, and all the hottest gays wanted him bc his allyship made him seem like he could be had. But my female friend had him all to herself, from what she said, he’d fuck the hell out of her with butt plug or bullet inside himself. The prostate is pleasure, if a straight guy can get past the mental hangup of it, he can enjoy the physicality of it, too. My poor husband is so afraid to be penetrated bc of one bad top, he’s still hesitant to take a dick, but he’s gay AF. Taking dick or not taking dick doesn’t equal someone’s sexuality. Linda’s boyfriend was not gay and my husband is not straight. – Letmwhirl
I am sure you could find maybe a bi guy who might enjoy flipping so you both get a chance.
Go to a gay bath house.
One I’ve been to have been very upscale, clean, friendly, and numerous guys who politely indicated that they wanted me to fuck them. I’m older but rather hung.
They were not wanting to get all kissy etc. they just wanted me to bend them over, slap on a rubber and fuck their prelubed ass.
not aure where you are
im Lauderdale Florida snow bird if any one has an idea
Hi Kyle. Our friend’s photo, spead-eagled in that sling, with a hint of lube, ( or spunk) in his arsehole, and that confident, teasing grin, is a real turn on and adds a different attraction to his text.
Oh come on …Your legs akimbo ….leather armband ..Your gay mate get over it ..Get a cock up your arse now …
I don’t consider myself gay, just bisexual, because I love pampering the female body! However, I have sex with many straight men. These men do not get satisfaction from their wives. That’s why I’m happy to help them live out their desires and thereby keep their marriage together. This is a mission for me, because I like dick and cum for straight men, and they can be satisfied without complications and go home happy. If you search persistently, you will find straight guys who just want to fuck and nothing else.
Soda, I have been a male slut for several years and have been the pleasure tool for many married straight guys who do not have sex at home.
I have a handler – a coordinator- who schedules guys to meet with me. I make myself available for them to fuck. John will sometimes plan a mini gangbang for me which I limit the number to three. I like to take cock while sitting on the edge of a couch. There is no kissing but simply a focus on getting dicks into my ass, talking nasty to the guy and getting him to shoot his load in my ass. I love to be fucked and John schedules at least one fuck per day.
I usually wank off after I get home because I’ve spent an hour being turned on by cock.
I’d love to fuck your beautiful hole and then rim it either before or after fucking you.you also have a beautiful face I’d love to hold close to me. Good luck to you When we were through I ‘d love you to fuck me with that delicious looking cock!
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Yes Gary,
I would also like to be fucked but safely only ,with so many STD’S it’s foolish to go any other way but safe I don’t Want a lifetime of taking Drugs to stay healthy , for me I choose a married man who has as much to loose as myself,
Mel
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“Maybe we weren’t as straight as we thought even though we had over 70 years of combined marriages between us. You never know, buddy.”
No, one DOES know when he follows that path away from the “straight and narrow” – Were you… are you… will you be… GAY. I wouldn’t worry about it, because you are indeed GAY. Enjoy it while you can and do not hurt anyone you love by taking that path. Some family members, in all probability, will be turned off to some extent by your admission should you make it, but if they love you and are not turned off by the admission they will love you still. A larger problem, in my opinion, is that you must be honest and forthright about it. Should they ask directly what is entailed in Gay anal sex, tell them openly and clearly. They may react with some amount of dismay, but if they do, assure them that it is not a “rape” it is just a physical expression of love between 2 men. Yours was, to me at least, a very interesting and helpful look at how Gay sex brings two men together as they explored their sexuality. Thank you.