I came across your site and have been reading everything. I’ve wondered about male anal orgasm before, but couldn’t find much info. I am straight, but I’ve always enjoyed anal stimulation. I haven’t been with many women who had an interest in it, either giving or receiving, so it’s been something that I explored on my own. At one point, I had a nice dildo that a girlfriend had left at my place. I played with that when I had the chance, but it wasn’t here for long before she retrieved it. I was close to an orgasm once with that thing, butt I had a slight elbow injury a the time and had to stop. I’m thinking about letting a guy fuck me, but I dont want it to be all lovey dovey or anything because that would turn me off. I’m not attracted to men, I just want to be fucked. My question is, what would gay/bi guys think about that? I would need to find a mostly straight acting guy that just wanted to get to it. Have any suggestions? – Gary
Gary – you just described every FWB hookup situation between married men. I’ve often described nsa sex between straight-identifying men like helping a buddy move furniture. You do it as a favor or out of friendship, not love. The same can apply to a blow job or fuck. It’s just 2 guys getting off and because guys know what turns another man on it’s very efficient. That situation worked for years for me. But, a funny thing happened. Me and another married man became close friends then best friends. Then we decided that since our sex was so good we wouldn’t fool around with any other FWB ….. long story short, he’s now my husband. Maybe we weren’t as straight as we though even though we had over 70 years of combined marriages between us. You never know, buddy. – JoE
Straight guys that want gay sex may be some kind of label/identity issue, but there are straight men that love butt stuff. If there’s s a man that wants butt stuff from a woman that knows how to do butt stuff well, they’re a straight guy that likes butt stuff. I knew a guy like that once. He was my female friend’s girlfriend. He was totally manly and a little metro, a huge ally, and all the hottest gays wanted him bc his allyship made him seem like he could be had. But my female friend had him all to herself, from what she said, he’d fuck the hell out of her with butt plug or bullet inside himself. The prostate is pleasure, if a straight guy can get past the mental hangup of it, he can enjoy the physicality of it, too. My poor husband is so afraid to be penetrated bc of one bad top, he’s still hesitant to take a dick, but he’s gay AF. Taking dick or not taking dick doesn’t equal someone’s sexuality. Linda’s boyfriend was not gay and my husband is not straight. – Letmwhirl
Straight guys that want gay sex may be some kind of label/identity issue, but there are straight men that love butt stuff. If there’s s a man that wants butt stuff from a woman that knows how to do butt stuff well, they’re a straight guy that likes butt stuff. I knew a guy like that once. He was my female friend’s girlfriend. He was totally manly and a little metro, a huge ally, and all the hottest gays wanted him bc his allyship made him seem like he could be had. But my female friend had him all to herself, from what she said, he’d fuck the hell out of her with butt plug or bullet inside himself. The prostate is pleasure, if a straight guy can get past the mental hangup of it, he can enjoy the physicality of it, too. My poor husband is so afraid to be penetrated bc of one bad top, he’s still hesitant to take a dick, but he’s gay AF. Taking dick or not taking dick doesn’t equal someone’s sexuality. Linda’s boyfriend was not gay and my husband is not straight.
It is essential that you get fucked at once….
You want the experience without the label, i.e., you are hung up on sexual identity. Do you really think anyone else cares? What does, “I’m not attracted to guys” even mean? It means you are in denial.
I wish you all the best on your journey.
Thankyou for sending your message that goes straight to our hearts. The photo goes straight to our cocks.
The important thing is to be with an experienced guy who has empathy and skills, in order to make the experience, and hopefully more future experiences, exciting, communicative, exploratory, enjoyable, intimate, fulfilling and fun. You probably know that the journey to orgasm and beyond is what makes it special. Opening you up gradually, exploring, responding to how you are feeling, and how he is feeling, learning from one another…
Don’t have a “wham bam thankyou man”, at least until you know about the joys of a built up of desires, and how exciting it can be to get there, also the after effects, leading to other pleasures and more of the same. X Editaly
This is very wise and clear advice. Love it.
Gary,
Purchase yourself a dildo!
I am not laughing at you….however, It is just odd to desire Gay M2M Sex…but not have it be in anyway be Gay!
Gary that’s a great picture of yourself 😉, my advice would be to stay like that in the sling and you’ll get what you want.
Many guys like fucking without the lovey dovey so just state what you’re into, a good blokey fuck.
Yeah. No flowers and candles required – just get it on. As women tell us, men think with our dicks, so all men think alike. The other bloke will be as uncomplicated in his requirements as you. You’d be amazed how you bar up when no holds barred …
Correct. your elbow injury might get better if someone else is doing the fucking – give your elbow a rest.
There’s Nothing “gay” about being fucked. Your hole doesn’t have a sexuality. A gf pegging you or a mate helping you out – as someone above said – like a buddy helping you to move furniture – is not “gay”. What is “gay” is not having the balls to be honest and say what you need, explore what you like, and accept what you enjoy. A warm dick is far better and like no dildo.
Gary – you just described every FWB hookup situation between married men. I’ve often described nsa sex between straight-identifying men like helping a buddy move furniture. You do it as a favor or out of friendship, not love. The same can apply to a blow job or fuck. It’s just 2 guys getting off and because guys know what turns another man on it’s very efficient. That situation worked for years for me. But, a funny thing happened. Me and another married man became close friends then best friends. Then we decided that since our sex was so good we wouldn’t fool around with any other FWB ….. long story short, he’s now my husband. Maybe we weren’t as straight as we though even though we had over 70 years of combined marriages between us. You never know, buddy.
Hi man
I won’t beat around the Bush.
But let us not talk taboos. Then hey presto, only fucking is left. Sucking too but suddenly there are people that do not allow me to cruise anymore to try to find oral. Anal is ok, but it must be with a woman. Just like 24/7 I have to listen to 3 doctors that call me a faggot and dirty because I have Aids, she puts me on the street because my dick is too small my balls too. My Beego is in reality really and in every way less taken into account with any credibility. And she claims to even spend time inside MY apartment. Oh Jesus I want nothing more than a fuck. How I need it. I used to be only top until years later, when shall we do it. I need some lessons in love.
Love from Leon Mussche
My balls slapping against your ass as I thrust my big hard cock deep inside you is music to my ears