If I take a look at a guys cock and think it’s a nice piece, what is the etiquette for commenting on it and letting him know I appreciate the way he’s wearing Penis. Is he going to think it’s too “gay” for a guy to compliment his cock? I don’t care about the gayness, but just don’t want to cause offence or discomfort. – Bumchum Genie
I said
“Nice bulge”
And he said
“Thank you” – Stanley
Well Bumchum Genie. As you know, I love being nude in the change room and especially being complimented on my cock and what true man wouldn’t? Because, alongside death and taxes, one universal truth exists, is that all men love their own dicks and seem fascinated by another man’s member. One gets stiff, others soon follow. While social convention and a degree of modesty prevents some chaos from going further they have all thought of it – even if slightly revolted by the idea, but the mere idea has a sort of fateful fascination. So on the theory we are all proud of our own cock just cum out and say something like how fit he’s looking, or he’s deffs getting gainz from the workout. Nothing homo in that is there. And then add “nice package too bro, it hangs well” or “dude, you’re a lucky bastard packing that schlong – you wear it well fella”. I can guarantee he’ll get a chubby at that and either bash you to a pulp saying you’re a fucken pervert queer cunt – which is a VERY small chance given he’s parading round the change room with no towel – or more likely, you’ll have his dick in your mouth before the hour is out…. Either way, you will know more. Nothing ventured nothing gained. The etiquette is admire and say rather than leer and peer. BoB
As a straight married guy, who experienced that fraternal camaraderie of jerking off with friends when I was in junior high in high school, I’ve always been comfortable being naked around other guys in the gym locker room, at home, or in the Rugby house when I was in college. I’ve never considered the fact that I might be looked at by other guys in a sexual way as being of any concern to me, always joking that it just proved that it was attractive to both sexes. I have what I have always considered to be a decent sized dick, I’ve always been comfortable being naked, but always thought that the “shower v. grower” paradigm would cut against me if tested, until a couple weeks ago. Another married guy that I have worked out alongside for several years caught me off guard in the locker room the other day when I came out of the shower with a semi hard on, which I wasn’t cognizant enough about to try to hide. My buddy had just finished getting undressed, looked at me and said, “don’t take this the wrong way, but you’ve got an amazing looking cock and you’re massive.” It caught me off guard, but i said “thank you, but you’re packing too” and immediately went full staff; seeing me hard made him go hard too. We stood there for a few seconds staring at each other’s hard dicks before I returned the compliment. He headed to the shower, walked towards me with his hand out so that he could touch my dick as he walked by (while giving me plenty of time to step back if I didn’t want it) and said “not as much as you are, clearly.” The feeling as he touched my dick was electric. We’ve been working out together since the pandemic lockdowns started, have seen each other naked several times and have even showered in the same gang shower together without getting aroused or even close to complimenting each other; this was the first honest compliment I think I may have ever received.
Thank You Adam
Agreed.
Thanks Stan(ok to use short version?) & John,
I agree that it’s definitely a compliment. I was thinking about the ettiquette of being naked in the locker room or the sauna and a dude is schwinging his haPenis. So of course I’m looking at more than a bulge and really get the urge to tell him that I’m looking and liking what I see!
Really keen what all you blokes think about it, pervy or plauditory??
Or, You can’t hide that thing either”.
These days, men are so much more likely to take a damn compliment like a man rather than get their briefs in a bunch in some fake panic mode.
Love yourself. Tell yourself you are the amazing man that you are.
Men are gods with superpowers. Penis is one of many.
If I want to chat inn the sauna/locker room I’ll usually say “how many years in the gym did it take to build those muscles mate ?” …. I usually get a positive reply and then I’ll say “your hard work has paid off well, and everything is in proportion, including your manhood, ha ha ha, …. well done fella ” This usually gets a humorous reply, and a jokey/blokey conversation starts …. just take it from there …. at this point I’ll most likely get a semi, and this sometimes is remarked upon, and often is reciprocated !!! …. at which point I’ll begin to fondle myself until totally hard …. the rest is always a good encounter !!!
I said “Nice bulge”
And he said “Thank you”