Some gay men are the most judgmental guys in the world. Why do you need to put guys in a box and label them? I am gay. I love men. I have an FWB who says that he’s straight. I blow him, eat his ass, and we kiss. He disappears when he’s got a girlfriend. I do believe that he would be gay in a free world, BUT that is for him to decide. Right now he just needs his dick sucked. Guys in prison have gay sex because they have no other options. Pegging is popular because it allows a guy to get penetrated. Getting penetrated isn’t what makes you gay. The guy who started this thread probably has no desire to kiss a man or suck a dick. He is secure enough to want to be “used,” and all men at some point would like to be dominated by another male, whether you can admit it or not. I am mostly a top, and as I have gotten older, I prefer to be in a relationship to top or bottom. I love oral sex with any masculine guy. However, I fantacise about being fucked 12-ways to Sunday by a hot, muscular, hairy stud. Meaning, a guy who could turn me from a top to a bottom. I say this because I feel what happens with some straight men is that when they experience sex with a man, they experience something that they can’t have with a woman. And having amazing sex is the magnet of desire. This is why some older guys who have children and a sexless marriage might start jacking with a bud. Then one thing progresses until you get blown by a guy who loves sucking dick. Unlike anything ever experienced with a woman. Then…what do you prefer is the reason for now going gay? A guy kissed me when I was 20 and all of my straightness dissolved. I never looked back.- BCHNCA
