Revolutionize My Sexuality

Maybe it’s more than just a coincidence that I found your website when it seems it may lead me to find what I’ve been searching for, someone to revolutionize my sexuality, and sex life.  I have always believed that through sex I could experience a spiritual high that would touch, stroke my soul. You wrote … Read moreRevolutionize My Sexuality

Abu Nuwas, Islamic Poet of Male Love

In the bath-house, the mysteries hidden by trousers
Are revealed to you.
All becomes radiantly manifest.
Feast your eyes without restraint!


You see handsome buttocks, shapely trim torsos,
You hear the guys whispering pious formulas
to one another
(‘God is Great! ‘ ‘Praise be to God! ‘)
Ah, what a palace of pleasure is the bath-house!
Even when the towel-bearers come in
And spoil the fun a bit.

Abū Nuwās al-Ḥasan ibn Hānī al-Ḥakamī (756–814),aka Abū Nuwās (Arabic: ابو نواس‎; Persian: ابو نواس‎‎, Abū Novās), was one of the greatest classical gay Arabic poets, who also composed in Persian on occasion.

the divine in you!

For years now, my sexual life has been about reconciling the joy of sex with the spiritual side of me, worshipping the divine presence I could feel, and sometimes truly see, in my orgasms. In search of that ultimate orgasm, I explored Tantric and Taoist massage, long sessions of breathing exercises with the Enemagra and the Pantra, meditation under the influence of Cannabis. And yes, slowly but surely, my sessions have been longer, more fulfilling, allowing my soul to ride on faster and more powerful orgasmic waves: I have learned to redirect my anal orgasms to my dickhead, my toes, my burning tits, my boiling balls, all the way to my head. It has become a true “out-of-body” experience: I see kaleidoscopic visions of the world, of the source of all life, including mine, pulsating deep inside me, in the center of my body, between my legs. It is total bliss, and I want these moments never to end. But it is so intense, that I cannot keep the intensity on my own for much more than a few minutes. Still, these multiple orgasms, one right after the other, have been the essence of my meditations for quite a few years now. My sessions will go for usually 2 to 3 hours, and often I end up by allowing myself to ejaculate, but not always. Sometimes, it is good to stop without shooting: it leaves a nice feeling of intense heat in my balls for many hours! But shooting a big load after such a long session of multiple orgasms is just an awesome experience. At some point, you feel you need to stop, or you will lose control and end up shooting!


It is actually not about loosing control, it is about letting the divine in you take control! I just keep my breathing exercises, moving my pelvis against the cushions to push the Pantra against my sacred G-spot, sending waves of pleasure through my dick, balls and spine, while a squeeze my very sensitive tits. Waves after waves, I feel I will shoot, but not yet, the waves become stronger and stronger, the pleasure opens my legs wide apart, I see kaleidoscopic views of golden waters spurting out of a fountain of life, like semen out of a dick. But then, something in me knows that there is no return, but I try to hold it more, I lay still, I sniff poppers, I hyperventilate 20 times then stop breathing till I cannot hold it any longer. And again I move my pelvis and the orgasmic waves start again shooting out of my inner being. Now, I feel my semen boiling inside me, being pushed along my urethra towards my dickhead, contraction after contraction, very strong, very slow contractions that each time make me scream and nearly pass out. I can nearly visualize my sperm progressing along the shaft of my dick.

divine 3

My ass contracts as well around the Pantra, and the orgasm sends me totally out of my body. I have become a vibrating orgasmic soul. I no longer can tell the difference between my balls, my dick, my ass or my tits. The whole of my body has become a huge vibrating sexual organ, sending incredible energy to the world and my soul. Finally, right before passing out, usually after I stopped breathing for well over a minute if not two, I see bright light pouring out of my body, and feel the bright pure sperm squirting out of my dick, fountain of life that will stay pulsating for long after the last drop of semen has been ejaculated. And recently, I found a way to make it even better. I put the Pantra in my ass, but connect an electro-stimulation device between my stainless steel ball-stretcher and a silver “sperm-stopper” (it has a little ball that goes inside my dickhead). And I stimulate non-stop. That allows me to orgasm constantly, instead of having to rest for a minute or two before doing it again. It is no longer multiple orgasms, but one never ending orgasm. And ultimately, my soul will take over, and I will explode inside me, become that huge sexual pulsation of energy, and shoot white life all over me, without touching my dick. I hope this can help some of you reach the Universe! Love and hugs!

fucking this straight guy

Hello Mr Cox, I’m a gay man and I’ve been fucking this straight guy for about a year. He doesn’t want to kiss, hug or get emotional.

He just likes his ass played with….and then likes the idea of someone older (he’s in his 20’s and I’m in my 40’s) taking control and sliding a dick up his ass. He had done lots of fingering so acutally entering him the first time took some time and patience (which I have lots). He was so proud of himself the first time he could take me all the way in….and then even more proud when he was able to let me get off while fucking him and him shoot while my dick was in him. He says a past girlfriend played with his amazing ass once and that started everything. His present girlfriend rims him (which he enjoy me doing before I fuck him). I am happy to him give him a pleasure that many straight men would like to have but are afraid to ask because of all the other gay stuff they may be forced to do. I have no problem of focusing of pleasuring his ass only. I also enjoy teaching him how it pleasures me. usaontop

using a dildo on myself

Mr Cox, First of all I’d just like to say that I really like your site. Secondly I wonder if you could offer some advice here. I’m a 32 year old male who has never had penetrative sex with either a man or a woman. I’ve often wondered why this is. Without wishing to sound vain I’m not physically unattractive and I’m a pleasant person to be with. Last year I had to leave work because of depression and go into counselling. It took me a while to begin to explore the deeper aspects of my psyche but eventually I managed to start talking about various traumatic events that had happened to me while I was younger. This included being abused by a variety of teachers at different schools and having the shit kicked out of me when I was 17. This led to severe depression, self harming and a non existence social life for about 11 years. I’ve always enjoyed masturbation and I’ve experimented with a vibrator on myself but I have this deep rooted fear about penetration. The odd thing is that I have managed to deal with other aspects of my sexuality more successfully. Earlier this year I started seeing a very good professional dominatrix in London who specialises in adult baby and spanking fetishes. I’ve gained a lot of confidence since seeing her but in penetrative sex terms I would feel more comfortable making my first explorations with another guy. I’m currently weaning myself off anti-depressants at the moment and as these have an effect on my libido I’d like to be off them before I possibly plan a session with you. I’m not really sure what I’d want to do so maybe its something we could discuss.

kiss my fucking arse

As I said i enjoy masturbation and using a dildo on myself so I think I’d enjoy being fucked. My mistress has suggested to me that I also explore submitting to another guy so maybe this is something we could talk about as well. I wouldn’t probably feel emotionally ready for that in the first place as I really need to deal with my bodies emotional and physical need to have sex first of all but I like to keep an open mind.

SeB Cox Replies : Doing things that scare you gives you a magickal energy. Have you thought about taking up a physical discipline, like there is kick boxing for example? If you are a bit shy you could try a few private lessons before you take part in an actual class. Remember you need to learn to ride before you learn to be ridden. Come to one of my Rose-Buddy Massage Classes. Oh, and in relation to your depression, have a good wank at least three times a day and eat your spunk, as it contains prostaglandin, a hormone specific to semen, and those who eat their own have lower rates of depression than those who don’t. And thats a scientific fact.  I wish you lots of love and penetration.

senior bear

I have to do this everyday: I am senior bear and if you had told me when I was a kid, that I would one day March in a Gay Pride parade, I wouldn’t have been able to get my mind around it. Brought up in the twisted world of Fifties wacko Irish-American Catholicism, I … Read moresenior bear