The art of gay cruising

Sex expert encourages men to try cruising at least once in their life. Dr Christopher White, Ph.D., is an expert in sexual and reproductive health with over 25 years of professional teaching experience. The art of gay cruising dates back decades, to the days when “homosexual conduct” was illegal, gay bars didn’t exist, and bathhouses … Read moreThe art of gay cruising

The Sexuality Bell Curve

Someone out there isn’t going to like what I’m going to say. I believe this to be true, so fire away… I can take it! I don’t think there’s such a qualifier as “straight” nor one we’ve described as “gay”. Our sexuality is on a Bell Curve. If there are men or women that are … Read moreThe Sexuality Bell Curve

12 Questions for Women who Masturbate to Gay Male Porn

What type of gay male porn do you particularly like? How do you masturbate to gay male porn? Do you imagine yourself to be a man while you watch? Could you tell us about any sex toys you use? Have you ever had sex with a gay man? Apart from your husband, who do you … Read more12 Questions for Women who Masturbate to Gay Male Porn

seven world champion boxers who were gay

According to Thomas Hauser‘s book, “The Black Lights” which was published in 1985, there had up until then been seven world champion boxers who were gay. It is one of the most widely heralded books ever written on boxing. There has been much speculation on social media, butt, what i love is that almost every boxer past … Read moreseven world champion boxers who were gay

How do I know if I’m gay

I am 21 years old and I am what you might call, bi curious. I have only admitted that I was questioning my own sexuality to one person, and it was someone I didn’t know. This is the second time I am admitting it. A question I really want to ask you guys is this…

How do I know if I’m gay…Here are my symptoms:

1) I enjoy anal stimulation from my girlfriend and from myself

2) I jerk off to gay porn, but only bondage or kinky stuff.

3) I have fantasized about being pleased by other males that I know in real life, or males that I dont know..

I think my family and friends might know i’m gay, but I can’t admit it and the fact that they MIGHT know makes me lose my breath…I find it humiliating...I need someone to talk to about this, hopefully someone who has been in the same situation or something close to it please leave a message. Thank you for running this site !

It sounds to me like you are into guys but you really won’t know for sure until you have sex with one. If having a man’s face and possibly cock up your ass doesn’t make your eyes go back in your head and make you feel as if you’d never had sex before, then you might not be gay! But if it does… BINGO! Then you’re a certified cock sucker. Be proud of it. Seriously. You can’t change it. Believe me, I’ve tried. I got married, had kids, stayed away from gyms and men in general. But no matter what I couldn’t run away from the truth. After 14 years, dick finally drew me in and once I had a taste, that was it. You can’t deny who you are and you SHOULDN’T deny it! Find the truth and you’ll find happiness. Find a gay friend to fuck with and see! John in reply to if I’m gay

It’s not about gay, straight or bi, it’s about male sexuality. I don’t have gay sex, I have guy sex. Only a guy can fully understand what another guy needs and feels. I enjoy giving that intense pleasure to other guys and them giving it to me. It is an amazing gift I am happy to share. Neilian in reply to how do I know if I’m gay

If you have fantasies about being with other men, that doesn’t mean you’re completely gay. You might be bi, or you might be bi-curious. I am without a doubt bisexual. I way prefer men over women, but I only consider myself bi because I have had sex with girls in the past.  Justin in reply to how do I know if I’m gay

fully understand what another guy needs and feels

Neilian says: It’s not about gay, straight or bi, it’s about male sexuality. I don’t have gay sex, I have guy sex. Only a guy can fully understand what another guy needs and feels. I enjoy giving that intense pleasure to other guys and them giving it to me. It is an amazing gift . I am … Read morefully understand what another guy needs and feels

labels aren’t good

So like Sex Cox says labels aren’t good thing, but does sound like even though you have a girlfriend, you rather be with a man. What seems to be holding you back is more the stigma, what would your family or friends think, depends on your upbringing or locale, but most people these days don’t care which way you butter your bread.

And your parents in the end just want see you happy, if they think your gay already well it wont be a shock to them. I am sort similar situation and so far kepted it in the closet, so it is possible to try before you buy into the whole thing and see if it really what you want out of life. Generally the easiest place to start is gay websites, where you can be discreet, other options tend to be more out there, gay bars, beats etc. Lastly if you got gay porn well, only gay guys do, another thing when watching straight porn and some sweetie being nicely laid, are you looking at the guy and wishing you were the sweetie in the pic, well then go get yourself a boyfriend.” BLONDSHY

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The Blessed Virgin

Eventually, 99% of men will experience a spiritual and or sexual relationship with another man. For many their first experience will set a direction for their spiritual and or sexual future. Most men will only ever to it once, or twice, while for others it becomes part of their lives, for the rest of their, lives.

Please leave a reply below to tell us about your experiences.

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41 year old divorced bi curious man

My fantasy is to fully loose my mansex virginity. I am a 41 year old divorced bi curious man interested in taking/being a male lover. I’ve never been in a gay bar but like the prospects of being able to check out other guys and see what type of guys might approach me without the … Read more41 year old divorced bi curious man

when i’m 64

Dear Seb, One of these days I’m going to come over and see you and thank you in person. it is so good to feel that all my abundant and constant sexuality is endorsed by a specialist like yourself. I spend a couple hours everyday, in sexual activity and am still learning. I am the … Read morewhen i’m 64

A Discussion on Phallic Worship

What a great and needed site. I always longed for a site that goes beyond the focus on just porn. I wish you consider including a discussion on Phallic worship as part of a healthy male sexual life; str8, gay, bi, curious, whatever. Damian Recommended Further Reading : Phallic worship : a history of sex … Read moreA Discussion on Phallic Worship

gay chicken

A game played with straight people to see who has more balls, metaphorically. the game is played in several ways. The most simple, and weakest, is the kiss. One ‘player’ moves in for a sensual kiss until one of the ‘players’ backs off. I’ve seen this lead to tongues but someone will always pull away. Another way gay chicken is played is by groping the other ‘players’ genitals or breasts or anything you can get your hands on. The most common form of the game is gay pillow talk in which each interaction escalates until someone laughs or just can’t respond. Lastly, ‘players’ can initiate dry humping sessions. Hardcore ‘players’ will use a combination of three tactics to win the game. Some have been known to even use all four tactics at once. This plan of attack is very tricky.(from Urban Dictionary)

sexual pleasures

We have to learn how to connect our sexual pleasures to our spiritually. We need to be taught this skill; we need guides to show us how. If we don’t, our spirituality gets made up for us by other people, and our sexual pleasures are far too fucking sacred for us to allow that do happen. Seb … Read moresexual pleasures