Tantra teaches us that your sexuality has two energy sources, male and female. Therefore everyone’s sexuality is bisexual. That’s how you came here, like a star without a name. How you choose to use your energy depends on your courage to be honest with yourself and to explore and enjoy your sexuality.
Whether or not you express this through a physical sex act, everyone has the ability to receive male and female sexual energy. Satisfying yourself sexually is the key that opens the door to your heart’s desire. While you may be attracted to sex with someone of the opposite gender, as what is opposite can be balancing. Butt, even a slight change in your sexual energy can lead to a different desire. If this pushes you towards a different experience that fulfils your particular needs at that time that is OK. For example, maybe you are usually attracted to and more comfortable with members of the opposite sex who are around the same age as yourself. Occasionally, for whatever reasons, you may need to mate with someone who happens to be much older or younger than you are. Therefore, you will be attracted to such partners. You’re not born with a defined sexuality. It comes to you, unconsciously during your childhood. You’re pointed in a certain direction, but it does not define it. It leaves you with choices which you may, or may not choose to acknowledge. Events from the past can be stored in the very prostate of your mind and may surface at any time.
Some choose bisexual tantra as they find this leads to an internal balance, an inner calmness. There may have been an absence of male love during your childhood so as an adult you can balance that. Or there could have been same-sex relationships that were hurtful and damaged you. Now as an adult you can heal and balance this. I have often felt when I hear someone being homophobic that what they really need is some sexual healing, some balancing. They have difficulty even hugging someone of the same sex. As that brings up fears that they are being sexual with a member of the same sex. If they are honest and accept this tiny part of there sexuality they will learn compassion, something they desperately need to balance not only their own sexuality but to balance their soul. If you can place your hand on your heart and state that you are 100% heterosexual or homosexual, fine. Butt remember you are capable of bisexuality and you could be more balanced, happier, more fulfilled, if that option were truly open to you. I am not necessarily talking about sexual intercourse, but your ability to express physically affection. If you’re not so fucking rigid about your masculinity, about your sexuality, you will have a greater freedom to express yourself. A greater freedom to love, in what ever form you choose to express that love. In other words do what ever makes you happy