The solution lies in choices that truly makes you happy, in other words the highest thought you can possibly have about yourself, you as a happy individual.
Those that love you will still love you, though it may take them time time to remember this. Those that fear for you and their feelings towards will judge you, however this has everything to do with them and their ignorance of who you really are. A Human Being DESERVING of Happiness and Love in their life always. When you are eventually living the Life you choose you will not only be Happy but a whole lot wiser and stronger Man anyone will be happy to know. You’ll get there Mate Love and Respect. S