much more than mechanical sex!

“just to be so intimate with another man that is so much more than mechanical sex! Intimacy which happens in the brain and the mind as well as the body, so that when I enter it really feels like union rather than, as i say, just mechanical sex…….sounds woosy i know but its not as … Read moremuch more than mechanical sex!

undress your conscience

It’s beautiful when you find someone that is in love with your mind. Someone that wants to undress your conscience and make love to your thoughts. Someone that wants to watch you slowly take  down all the walls you’ve built up around your mind and let them inside. Anon Class 777 : Finding Your HaPenis

100% ?

There are men who say they are 100% gay, there are equally men who say they are 100% gay. I am an old man. I have spend my adult life being a warrior. I have on occasions been very brave and asked somewhat very difficult question.

I think I may have actually meet 1 man who absolutely convinced me that he was 100% gay, but I am still waiting for a str8 man to convince me, that that the opposite is possible.  I think it was probably in 1975, that I meet a man who got the closest. Even he agreed that he was probably only 99.99%, but after a bit of one or t’other it was definitely slightly less. It was the first time that I ever seen red underpants. You probably won’t believe me, but I still have’ em

heterosexual frame-work

Every man should at least once in his life experience the magick of a womans orgasming while watching her husband getting fucked. To prepare both the woman and the gay man should bathe together. It helps if the woman has a beautiful shaved pussy. Simple touching is a good starting point. As you both feel relaxed you … Read moreheterosexual frame-work

the little lips of my anus

Last night this great masseur stroked the little lips of my anus with warm oil and then gently entered me with a finger and stroked my prostate until I began to quake and scream. He then slipped something into my ass that I later discovered was a Pantra Prostate Massager, and he quivered that in my rectum while his other hand reached under me and caressed my meat with warm oil. I had the best climax of my life lying there flat on my face, screaming and sobbing and begging for it to continue forever. Hairy Fat Dude

http://www.malemassages.co.uk/rosebud-massage/

6 reasons i am commando…

Essentially it’s a personal choice butt, there are at least 6 really powerful reasons to go commando/freeball/wear no underwear. The main reasons I avoid wearing underwear are

  1. I find it more comfortable, as most of the “designer” briefs out there today have been “engineered” more for men with small bodies, cock and balls.
  2. Increases my sperm count. Wearing underwear is not in the best interests of your reproductive organs …specifically your balls. For ideal sperm production and for the optimum health of the bull balls, the ideal temperature is slightly less than body temperature.
  3. I look better, underwear is designed to make men’s bulge disappear, freeballing allows you to present your bulge to the world.
  4. I feel Nice and free,  sexy with my cock rubbing against my pants, and the balls sagging, causing accidental, excitement, which shows prominently.
  5. I look Seriously Cool, complete strangers smile and are friendly to me.
  6. Helps Keeps me cool in hot temperatures

Please tells us your reasons to go commando/freeball/wear no underwear, by leaving a comment below

Study Tantra

When I say study I mean I bought a few books done quite a lot of research on the internet and also attended workshops in London and Amsterdam. It changed me. I am different to the extent that I am more connected to my “spirituality”, and that’s the problem I have with Tantra. I started to hide behind the philosophy. I would talk about not cumming for weeks and how I was Master of my own sexuality.

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Even though I thought many of the books I had bought and read were basically full of crap and that whoever wrote them would have been better of having sex than writing about it, I still continued to buy more. They looked impressive on my newly growing collection of books that were placed in my sitting room for everyone to see. And as I learned I sold. The central teaching of Tantra is that everything is an illusion, that we see things through our own eyes only. Someone else can look at exactly the same thing and see it differently.

Tantrikas (people who practise Tantra) see everything as sacred. It destroys concepts like that a church is more holy than a bathroom. Everywhere is holy. And therefore all things are “God” (Brahman). You must take control and responsibility within your life. Your sexuality is yours. If you want to fuck everyone you meet — do it. But don’t make excuses, and don’t say it’s for spiritual reasons. Do it. If you don’t want to do that, and you want to be more restrained — do that — and don’t allow your sexuality to control you. Your cock is your power, Your heart and mind and soul.

Hindu and Buddist Genital Massage

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I went to Indonesia a few years ago and was staying with friends on Bali. It is a mixture of Hindu and Buddist which is a very uninhibited culture. I needed a haircut and found a hairdresser on the edge of the tourist area of town. I said I wanted a haircut and the very good looking handsome hairdresser suggested a massage which is common there.

I could see as soon as I walked in he had eyed me up thoroughly. I was resistant at first as I had things to do later but mostly because I suspected he might be hoping for a bit more than a massage and I knew with the slightest provocation I would get aroused. I had had massages before on Bali by girls on the beach however and they were very pleasant and relaxing. In that culture there is a sort of obligation on Western tourist to buy services because they won’t take direct charity and are quite proud and honest as part of their faith. I was in a dilemma also because there had been a bomb recently that had virtually stopped the Australian tourist trade that they largely depend on.

Against my better judgement, mainly because I had a boyfriend at home, I decided to risk it. I was led through to a small room with a proper massage table made ready with towels. I was left alone while he went to get some oil and more towels. I undressed to my rather bright stylish boxer shorts and got on the table face down trying to control myself and thinking once he just settles into the massage I should be ok even though I was randy as hell and fancied him rotten. He came back in and announced forcefully “less underwear”. I felt I had to oblige as I could not really get up and get dressed again. I slid off my boxers and half turned away from him to put them down with my clothes, but he came to that side ant took them from me. He hung them up by the waistband on a fairly high wall hook that assumed an almost ominous symbolic presence like a pendant or trophy above us. He started off working on my back and arms then predictably down my spine over my buttocks and pushed between my legs almost making me easy myself up from the table. I started to get hard as he firmly slid one hand then the other quite unnecessarily over by testicles and touched my penis. I was getting hard but was determined to defy him and keep control.

I was quite relieved when he then started on my legs and tried to persuade myself he knew I was getting aroused so was leaving me alone to recover as it were. All too soon his strong hands worked up the inside of my thigh and mercilessly pushed against my genitals. I tried not to enjoy it or squirm but it was very hard to think of anything else. I wished he would stop but also hoped he would not. After some more normal massaging again he curtly announced I was to turn over and left me as he went to the far end of the room into a separate sink area. I niavely tried to persuade myself he was giving me a chance to compose myself again before the next onslaught and sort of pretending it was a necessary part of the process for him to touch me and he was resigned to the fact it sometimes resulted in arousal.

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I had just turned around and wiped away a bed of clear precum. I was hoping a few minutes without my penis pressing on the towel might just be enough to get it limp again. He came straight back and resumed sliding hands everywhere again but now I was fully erect and had totally given up saving my dignity. He shamelessly deliberately brushed against it as he reached over me and gently bumped it with his arms. It was so unreal lying in that little room with my penis bobbing up and down in excitement while he pretended all was normal. I said “I am sorry it has a mind of its own”. He said “you are a strong man it is normal”. I thought well only normal if a gorgeous bronze black haired guy with beautiful eyes and a lovely smile squeezes and strokes my penis and testicles! He asked when I last had sex and I said well actually had an encounter of sorts last week. He said sex on Bali is just like food. he came up to me and started to stroke and fondle my cock stroking the head through my foreskin. He said do you want me to help you. I could hardly say no and though a wank was safe enough. After a while I wanted to touch his and felt his white trousers where I could feel him aroused inside his pants. He helped me get it out. we had the most delicious mutal wank and came together. He went to get wet clothes to clean us up. I immediately got another erection. He said 2you are a strong man” again.

I liked that because I am not well built so he meant it in a sort of psychological sexual way. He wanked me again and I came again. It is the only time in my life I recall getting stiff again immediately and cuming twice. He told me afterwards he did not do it often but found me very attractive. he said some old guys get stiff with him hoping he will but he just ignores them but can see it in their pants. I thought to myself “Oh so they get to keep their pants on do they!”. he was obviously on a mission since I went through his door. After I had just paid the standard charge a tropical storm rained outside and he bid me wait until it passed. He was sitting and i was standing when he put his hand up the leg of my shorts, inside my boxers and started to feel me again. Luckily the rain stopped soon and I made my exscape feeling the thrill of it afterwards. I went back once after and it all happened again but was slightly less thrilling as I was not in denial that anything would happen but on the other hand the thrill of anticipation was also fantastic. I can tell you about another Bali experience another time.
Tony

masturbation the only barometer of virility?

Your wife is right. It is possible for a man to masturbate so much for so long that it lowers his sperm count, and it sounds like you’ve been going for the record. Generally the testicles (and the prostate gland furnishing most of the spunk in semen) will recharge themselves, but give em a break once in a while!

Also, a man can really degrade the quality of his seed by wearing the “tighty-whitey” type of underwear (briefs) on into adulthood. They imprison the testicles, defeating their ability to maintain a lower-than-normal-body temperature by “hanging loose” in warm situations and “cooking” sperm at too high a temperature by trapping the balls way up against the body. Also also, underwear with more than a teensy bit of polyester or elastic doesn’t breathe well enough to ventilate the scrotum, which adds to the “cooking” phenomenon. other SHOULD NOT’s: Use porn (especially video) and gimmicks (such as a penis pump) to create and sustain an erection. Just don’t do it! Masturbate to dry orgasms (yes, they do it in India but it’s part of a ritual and more to the point, with them it’s a matter of muscle control, not death of prostate fluid); Think you can keep up the same schedule of jayo you did when you were in mid-adolescence; Make masturbation the only barometer of virility.

In fact, making all sexual frequency (outlet) the only measure of manliness is self-defeating. Lee

tightly encased

We are taught as men to wear very tight underwear and jeans or pants that hide our cock and bollocks. A study conducted by *Dr Rima Dada has revealed that the sperm count of a normal adult male in India, which used to be 60 million per ml around 30 years ago, has plunged to … Read moretightly encased

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