aromas and their impact on man to man sex

Greetings Seb! I’ve read your email several times and finally found time to respond. There are two things related to aromas and their impact on man to man sex that I’d like to share. The first is a bit of a puzzle to me, and I’ve done some research in an attempt to understand the source. After some effort I believe I have found the answer.

Here’s the situation: I have a best friend of nearly eight years, and we met through a mutual friend. We started off having a mutual interest in man-to-man sex. At first his newness was a turn on and attraction to me, along with the fact that he is extraordinarily handsome. But after a while I began to notice something rather unique. When we would greet in private we would hug one another, and I found myself wanting to breath deeply and almost “sniff” him around the forehead and hairline. When I did, I would get an instant erection.  As we would engage in sex I noticed that I would get extremely turned on when we were face to face or when I had my face around his hair or hairline. Being eternally curious about things, it made me take notice and I began my research.  I’ve never had this response with another guy. I had heard about pheromones but had little insight into the impact of them.


What I discovered in my research was that some people have stronger and more potent pheromones than others. I have deduced that this is the situation with my best friend. Just breathing in his natural man-smell gives me a tremendous hardon. I have to be careful not to let it happen in the wrong setting (we are both bi, and I’m married). I’ve noticed how other people react to my best friend as well. Occasionally when we’re out with other friends and spouses, he will invite one of the ladies to dance.

They seem to get clingy to him and to turn on to him. While my wife is totally unaware of his and my private relationship, she has said how attractive he is and there is “something mysterious” about how attractive he can be. I’ve noticed women dancing with him who suddenly began getting sexual with him, and one lady actually reached down and rubbed his crotch while dancing with him. So, all of that being said, I believe he exudes very strong pheromones.  There isn’t a discernable smell about him, other than a clean “just-showered” smell. But I have tested my response, and know that if I want to get rock hard all I have to do is smell around his hairline, in front or back of his head or around his ears, and I am ready to fuck.

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The second thing I’ve notice relative to sex and aroma is somewhat akin to the Pavlov dog experiments. My best friend and I use a particular kind of oily lubricant when we’re having sex. After having used it for a while, just the smell of it now will give me an erection. I’ve used it during the winter for dry skin, and when I start applying it after a shower I get an erection from the smell.  (Along with wildly stimulating daydreams about him.) I’m not sure what your thoughts were about the topic, and I hope you find this somewhat helpful.  If you would like further details, Warmest Regards, A devoted reader! D

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Seb, This is the only forum I would dare share something of this monumental intimate proportion! I have a lover, Bob, who is my “dream” guy. He hits 10 favs of my TOP 10 list. I am smitten! We both are married and see each other only about once or twice a month.

It is nothing like I have ever experienced and he says the same. It is like floating. Something happens when we are together, almost like a deep, deep spiritual connection. Surreal in essence. Our sessions go for hours at a time. Nothing is off limits and we just enjoy playing with each other. The pleasure is off the rector scale!

My observation and question: when we fuck, he is the top and I the bottom. I feel these incredible rolls of orgasms like ocean waves and sometimes have told him to please be still for a few moments because I cannot take any more. It is that good!

At certain times, my legs shake uncontrollably! Like a convulsion perhaps. I am suspended on his prick and shaking. He is laughing and holding me tight. It is funny except that it is SO powerful. What the fuck is that? David, USA

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relaxing massage with a “Happy Ending”

Seb, I’m a married man but sex no longer happens at home and hasn’t done for some time now and because I get so frustrated I have to resort to wanking, I took the advice of a friend and have for a couple of years now been seeing a lady who gives me a nice relaxing massage with a “Happy Ending”, At the week end and because she doesn’t have a computer and wants to improve her sexual understanding she asked me to Google Tantric and Rosebud Massage neither of which I had heard of before.

I came across your site and read with intrigue the various comments regarding your service. I’m not gay and have never sought a relationship with another man. I have had my cock handled by females in the past but never by a man neither have I had a mans cock in my hand. All of this would be a completely new experience. The thought of being sexually stimulated in the way that you and some of your clients describe is, I must say, very appealing. Unlike you, I don’t have a very big cock. When errect one hand will cover it so I’m not sure if that’s the reason that my wife is no longer interested in sex. The lady who I see manages to satisfy my needs but I thought I might explore alternatives. Can you please let me know if I would benefit from one of your sessions and, if so, how much would it cost? Regards. George.?

George, good to hear from you. Most of the men who come for a male massage are heterosexual. It simply an opportunity to relax and enjoy touch without feeling you have to perform. Touching another man’s cock is an amazing feeling, it’s like touching something that helped to create you. Actually it is a bit like touching yourself. I think you would benefit from having one of my celebration sessions, as if you have the balls to do this, you will probably have the balls to do any thing. It’s not good enough to satisfy your needs, you have to take a step beyond that. The size of your cock is not important in relation to the massage, it’s more about the size of your orgasm. My sessions last about 90 minutes on the massage table and some time to relax. Let me know if you would like to book a massage. Happy days,  mr cox

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Big Cock on Hastings Nudist Beach Sensation

A certain fellow has become a celebrity on Fairlight Cove Naturist Beach in Hastings He would walk up and down the beach displaying his massive cock for all to see.He loves ladz and ladies to photograph his beauty. Some would ask if they could take a photo. From naked old men with huge dicks to young men who admire them. All are welcome on Hastings Nudist beach.

When I go to the nudist beach people never talk about this kind of thing, it’s kind of taboo. You can’t go about with a hard on even if you see the best piece of ass you ever saw you must contain yourself. Here it seems kind of cool to drop your pants and let others discuss your genitals. Somehow it seems kind of healthy. Like when we were in HS privately comparing penises in PE. Hell everybody did that we just didn’t discuss it like you can on the web. Frankly I’ve been known to share a lady with another man under the right circumstances but I’m definitely not interested in sex with another man or any sort of gay lifestyle. I’m not condemning it but it just isn’t me. i lead a very straight life. Stratocruser


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