Your arse holds many secrets to the pleasures of life. Finding that your arse is available for pleasure may be like discovering magick, a spiritual awakening, or even an orgasm that you knew you were capable of. Most of your arsehole’s nerve endings are on its surface so devote much attention to external anal massage.
The inside of your arse has fewer nerve endings so penetration is mostly about feeling pressure and fullness. Carefully soften the external muscles by playing with your arsehole’s resilient edge of resistance to allow you to experience sacred self buggery penetration that is entirely painless and completely enjoyable, you need that so badly, it’s fucking spiritual.