Penis Size And Masculinity

A study has been released by researchers at Holland’s Utrecht University that suggests a man’s penis size is key to his masculinity, and most often his favourite body part.

251 men with an average age of 29 were surveyed by psychological researchers. “Our study reveals how men see their penis has considerable influence on how they value themselves in general,” the study’s authors say. The men surveyed said their penises were the most attractive parts of their body, followed by their stomachs and their skin. The majority of gay men surveyed regard a large penis as ideal, and the size of their penis was found to be linked to their overall level of self-esteem. “It is not known whether there is a similar link in heterosexual men,” say researchers, “but there are various reasons for assuming the self image of men is linked to how they evaluate the most characteristically masculine part of their body.” Commenting on the research, self anointed sex guru Seb Cox, remarked, “I have a very beautiful cock, but my SOUL is my biggest sexual organ”.

I agree and disagree with the studys/comments. I don’t think penis size has anything to do with masculinity. Some of the most feminine men I know have huge cocks. I do think it has a lot to do with self esteem. I remember a kid in school the first year we started to shower after gym class. This kid was a “sissy” and was always being picked on. On the frst day we went to the showers after gym, there was a kind of tension in the air and nervous laughter, but this sissy kid just stripped down and sauntered on down the aisle to the showers… the whole way, swinging a huge heavy bat with the balls to match. I remember literally seeing jaws drop (mine included) as they stared at his swingin’ Richard. After that day I never remember him being picked on again, in fact, I think he made a few new friends that day… LOL. Even though I don’t think that anyone thought he would actually bring the subject up if he was provoked, nobody would dare take a chance an being called out as having a smaller dick than the sissy in the school. I feel like this speaks both to the self esteem of the sissy kid (even while being picked on and teased it didn’t affect his self esteem) and the other kids who probably spent the rest of their lives comparing themselves to his beautiful swingin’ meat. I guess that includes me too. Scott Redleter

I just read a few of the comments, and there are three that stand out for me. Scott Redleter wrote about great big huge hanger belonging to sissy or fem men… I’ve seen it all-too often. I’ve also seen big-dicked bottoms (masc. and fem.) who will dive on any man who treats them well… pretty much regardless of his size; but of course, size does have a tendancy to rule the room. Marcus wrote about balls being the measure of a man’s masculinity. I’d have to agree on that more than the others… simply because it’s a set of nuts that give us broader shoulders as we grow up. They deepen our voices; grow hair on our chests and chins; and aide in the expansion of the overall length and girth of our dicks.

Plus, without balls, our testosterone levels would be equivalent of females (who also produce that magical elixer of chemical wonder). So… balls equals masculinity is a TOTAL truth. Jacques stated that self esteme was the main issue… but again… there are huge cocked bastards out there with low self esteme, and tiny pricked buggerers that are just that — they’ll fuck anything that moves, or doesn’t move, and are the envy of every man out there. I’d like to challenge everyone to think back to the time when there wasn’t sex being advertized EVERY-FUCKIN-WHERE… hell, even water has been sexualized (talking about the drinking kind, not the bathing kind)… think of old black and white photos and the hunky men posing proudly. Do you honestly think those hard working farmers and labourers had the opportunities we can’t get away from that compare one person (albeit airbrushed and hyped to no limit) against everyone else?

There are some very interesting comments here, but I feel the discussion has so far has been rather one-sided – only reflecting the outlook of a horny top. I’m versatile; I enjoy sex equally in either role. I’m adequately though not exceptionally endowed, and really not too worried about cock size. I would like to make the following observations: From the point of view of a bottom, thickness is far more important than length; what really counts for erotic delight is how wide it stretches the anus, rather than how deep into the rectum it can reach. The only area where length really matters is if you want to perform deep throat on your lover – obviously his cock has to be long enough to actually reach down your throat. From the point of view of a top (this one anyway, when in that role!) the really attractive feature of a lover is not so much his cock but rather his beautiful, shapely bottom, and especially his sweet little rosebud. I not John’s comments about guys working out because they feel inadequate and a beautiful body somhow compensates for a disappointing cock. I think this is completely wrong. I work out regularly. I do it because I enjoy it and because physical beauty contributes mightily to self esteem. (I wouldn’t be so presumptious as to call myself actually beautiful, but I am unarguably in very good shape.) As far as sex is concerned, my main concern with good body tone is to make myself desirable to other guys, so that they want to fuck me or have me fuck them – I’m delighted with either outcome! Jason

I agree and disagree with the studies/comments. I don’t think penis size has anything to do with masculinity. Some of the most feminine men I know have huge cocks. I do think it has a lot to do with self esteem. I remember a kid in school the first year we started to shower after gym class. This kid was a “sissy” and was always being picked on. On the first day we went to the showers after gym, there was a kind of tension in the air and nervous laughter, but this sissy kid just stripped down and sauntered on down the aisle to the showers… the whole way, swinging a huge heavy bat with the balls to match. I remember literally seeing jaws drop (mine included) as they stared at his swingin’ Richard. After that day I never remember him being picked on again, in fact, I think he made a few new friends that day… LOL. Even though I don’t think that anyone thought he would actually bring the subject up if he was provoked, nobody would dare take a chance an being called out as having a smaller dick than the sissy in the school. I feel like this speaks both to the self esteem of the sissy kid (even while being picked on and teased it didn’t affect his self esteem) and the other kids who probably spent the rest of their lives comparing themselves to his beautiful swingin’ meat. I guess that includes me too. Scott Redleter

Explore the taboo male pleasures of male self-buggery

Confront your greatest fears. Enter into a world of often forbidden male pleasure. A fast path to personal power and profound wisdom. Explore the taboo pleasures of male self-buggery and simultaneous anal/penis stimulation. To be a great lover, a man must first be intimate with himself, fearlessly exploring the pleasures and sensations of his own … Read moreExplore the taboo male pleasures of male self-buggery

Ginger : Erection & Sexual Health Benefits

Ginger has been used for over 5,000 years as a healing herb in Chinese and Indian medicine, its also one of the most popular cooking spices in the world. Known as the herb of passion, as mentioned in the Kama Sutra. Ginger is known as a warming herb contains Gingerol, a chemical that is related … Read moreGinger : Erection & Sexual Health Benefits

86.33% of men are growers rather than showers

In one study of 80 dicks n dudes, researchers found that the size of a man’s soft cock and its full erect length increases from flaccid to erect lengths ranged from less than a quarter-inch to 3.5 inches longer. Whatever the clinical significance of these data may be, the locker-room significance is considerable.

You can’t assume that the bloke with a big, flabby cock gets much bigger with an erection And the blokes whose penis cocks looks tiny might get a surprisingly big erection. An analysis of more than a thousand measurements taken by sex researcher Alfred Kinsey shows that shorter flaccid penises tend to gain about twice as much length as longer flaccid penises. A penis that doesn’t gain much length with an erection has become known as a “show-er,” and a penis that gains a lot is said to be a “grower.” These are not medical terms, and there aren’t scientifically established thresholds for what’s a show-er or a grower. Kinsey’s data suggest that most penises aren’t extreme show-ers or growers. About 12% of penises gained one-third or less of their total length with an erection, and about 7% doubled in length when erect.

Private Dicks – Men Exposed – 1999

Private Dicks: Men Exposed is a 1999 American HBO TV documentary on the human penis. The film was directed by Thom Powers and Meema Spadola . The 58-minute documentary features 25 men with age ranging from young to old, and who work in a variety of professions, some of whom are professional performers. A mix … Read morePrivate Dicks – Men Exposed – 1999

the most sensitive part of the body for sexual pleasure

For many men the frenulum  and the perineum are the most sensitive part of their body for sexual pleasure. Researchers asked 81 healthy men to rate the erotic sensitivity of different areas of their bodies, including certain parts of the penis, the scrotum, anus, nipples, and neck. The underside of the glans and underside of the shaft … Read morethe most sensitive part of the body for sexual pleasure

making small cocks splendid

 15th Century Arabic Sex Manual : (CHAPTER 17) : Prescriptions for Increasing the Dimensions of Small Cocks and for Making Them Splendid.

Know, O Vizir (God be good to you!), that this chapter, which treats of the size of the virile cock, is of the first importance both for men and women. For the men because from a good-sized and vigorous cock there springs the affection and love of women; for the women, because it is by such members that their amorous passions are appeased, and the greatest pleasure is procured for them. This is evident from the fact that many men, solely by reason of their insignificant members, are, as far as coition is concerned, objects of aversion to women, who likewise entertain the same sentiment with regard to those whose cocks are soft, nerveless, and relaxed. Their whole happiness consists in the use of robust and strong cocks. A man, therefore, with a small cock, who wants to make it grand or fortify it for the coitus, must rub it before copulation with tepid water, until it gets red and extended by the blood flowing into it, in consequence of the heat; he must then anoint it with a mixture of honey and ginger, rubbing it in sedulously.

Arabic Sex Manual

Then let him join the woman; he will procure for her such pleasure that she objects to him getting off her again. Another remedy consists in a compound made of a moderate quantity of pepper, lavender, galanga, and musk, reduced to powder, sifted, and mixed up with honey and preserved ginger. The cock after having been first washed in warm water, is then vigorously rubbed with the mixture; it will then grow large and brawny, and afford to the woman a marvellous feeling of voluptuousness. A third remedy is the following: wash the cock in water until it becomes red, and enters into erection. Then take a piece of soft leather, upon which spread hot pitch, and envelop the cock with it. It will not be long before the cock raises its head, trembling with passion. The leather is to be left on until the pitch grows cold, and the member is again in a state of repose. This operation, several times repeated, will have the effect of making the cock strong and thick.

A fourth remedy is based upon the use made of leeches, but only of such as live in water, You put as many of them into a bottle as can be got in, and fill it up with oil Then expose the bottle to the sun, until the heat of the same has effected a complete mixture. With the fluid thus obtained the cock is to be rubbed several consecutive days, and It will, by being thus treated, become of a good size and of full dimensions. For another procedure I will here note the use of an donkey’s member. Procure one and boil it, together with onions and a large quantity of corn. With this dish feed fowls, which you eat afterwards. One can also macerate the ass’s verge in oil, and use the fluid thus obtained for anointing one’s cock, and drinking of it. Another way is to bruise leeches with oil, and rub the verge with this ointment; or, if it is preferred, the leeches may be put into a bottle, and, thus enclosed, buried in a warm dung-hill until they are dissolved into a coherent mass and form a sort of liniment, which is used for repeatedly anointing the cock. The cock is certain greatly to benefit by this. One may likewise take rosin and wax, mixed with tubipore, asphodel, and cobbler’s glue, with which mixture rub the cock, and the result will be that its dimensions will be enlarged. The efficacy of all these remedies is well known, and I have tested them.

arab-wanking

al-rawd al-‘âtir fî nuzhat al-khâtir by Muhammad ibn Muhammad al-Nafzawi is a fifteenth-century Arabic sex manual and work of erotic literature. The translation of the title is The Perfumed Garden of Sensual Delight (al-rawd al-‘âtir fî nuzhat al-khâtir), which was used by the wonderful, and sadly missed dj John Peel for his pirate radio show in the 1960’s. The book presents opinions on what qualities men and women should have to be attractive, gives advice on sexual technique, warnings about sexual health, and recipes to remedy sexual maladies. It gives lists of names for the cock and vagina, has a section on the interpretation of dreams, in some versions there is a chapter on homosexuality.

worshiping the divine masculine

marc says : I’m bi-sexual, love women, love to make love to them, feel life with them, BUT, when it comes to really, really wanting to feel fulfilled, I need a masculine man and his beautiful cock to satisfy me. I am very oral and I love everything about a man. I love his man-scent, … Read moreworshiping the divine masculine

is it safe to use a cock pump?

HI Seb, I just bought cock pump and just arrived yesterday. I bought the one for the beginner, my questions are:
– is it safe to use cock pump?
– will it damage the tissue and the blood vessel on my cock?,
– does it really would make my cock bigger? or perhaps slightly bigger??

Thanks Seb, sorry for the silly questions.

Hello M8, it’s actually a really good question. Here in the Uk cock pumps are still prescribed by the National Health Service as a treatment for some men with erectile dysfunction. So I am assuming the are safe for most men to use. The NHS claim that after using a vacuum pump, nine out of 10 men are able to have sex, regardless of the cause of their ED. This makes them more successful than viagra in the treatment of ED.

Make sure you buy a good quality pump with a release valve. Before you pump spend about 10 minutes massaging your cock with lots of coconut oil. Bring your self to erection, and then let your cock go flaccid and put it inside, and pump until there is a seal. Respect your cock, if you over pump you could cause injury. When you are finished your session wash your cock with really cold water, and then warm water. Finally massage a tablespoon of natural honey into your cock and let it hang to dry. According to Professor Kevan Wylie, a consultant in sexual medicine at the University of Sheffield, “There is very little evidence that these devices cause any significant long-term gain in size. Which means that there is some eveidence that they do make your cock bigger. Do your own research, let me know how you get on. Happy pumpingMr Cox

I remember seeing the “Penis Pump” advertised all over in print publications and later on the internet several years back. What was never included in the advertising, was the fact that once the blood receptacles in the penis have been enlarged by applying suction to draw extra blood into the lesser volume they began with, they don’t shrink back as the original vessels did, to reveal a flaccid penis. The elasticity of the vessels is destroyed by the suction and the once distended penis tends to appear swollen when not aroused and refuses to stand on it’s own to assist entry into the rather tight places where it gives pleasure and does its God given function. If you just want a “large, heavy” penis, one that doesn’t do anything else, use that “Penis Pump”. If you want it to be perky, and capable of standing on its own, rising and falling on your emotions, the “Pump” will do the opposite, and you’ll be the loser… RobtheElder

complete and repeated penile euphoria

A sound bath to a meditative state combined with your slowest ever massages to induce a state of complete and repeated penile euphoria. I have just returned home with a huge smile on my face! The meeting was amazing. It gave me the opportunity to learn/practice new techniques and meet some amazingly lovely people. I’d … Read morecomplete and repeated penile euphoria

how tantra male massage works?

Maybe I will ask a silly question can someone explain a little bit more how does the tantric male massage works? I am new to this one and would like to understand more of it 🙂 thanks

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In Tantric Philosophy there is no such thing as a silly question. What i like about tantra, is it’s simplicity. You simply touch with an intention to make your partner feel amazing. The tantra massage is a prayer. A slow respectful full body sensual massage. In Tantric philosophy, all a man’s goodness comes from his lingam(penis).

So this sacred intimacy  massage involves very relaxed breathing and slow awakening of the lingam to create a magickal energy that we circulate to certain sacred points(called chakras) in his body. Mr Cox

Gay Tantra My Arse!

the penis gong bath workshop

Hello seb, I wanted to enquire what the penis gong bath workshop is like? Is it suitable for straight guys too? The Big Gong? – A Meditational Ha-Penis Massage Sound Bath Ritual Monday, May 7, 2018, 6:00 PM 14 almighty members Went Check out this Meetup → Hello Roy, It’s suitable for anyone who has … Read morethe penis gong bath workshop

Some Men Have a Small Dick, Get Over It

Alright, albright, I’m not going to lie any more. I’m putin it out der, I have a small penis. So what. I’ve had a girlfriend for a long time. Who gives a shit. I fucking don’t. As Elton John said to Putin, Some Men Have a Small dick Get Over It!

Often men have different attributes! One guy might have a small cock but a very muscular body. Another might be really hairy with a hairy back. There is a market for everyone, I think! Don’t be afraid if your penis is smaller than average. I bet you guys get quite big when erect and then your penis becomes the same size as all the other guys anyway! Hugs to all you guys! I love you no matter what size your cock is! Anon

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