Applying the cock ring correctly

Dear Seb__I’ve been a big admirer of your work, so I wanted to contribute a few thoughts on cock rings, for your article:

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• On one level, you wear a cock ring to maintain your erection by regulating blood flow. But when I put on a cock ring, I feel like am both physically and spiritually amplifying my “cock-mind”— intensifying the pleasure and pride of having a cock.  It’s almost like I’m putting a ring on my cock to really feel married to it.
• I like silicon more, nowadays, because it feels friendlier. In general, I have been moving away from harder, penetrative scenes, toward softer, more “cooperative” ones. Cumming soft, after intense play (sometimes including prostate massage), is my new favorite thing— and I find silicon rings work better for those circumstances. For me, metal cock rings have always been more for public play— bars, sex clubs, and such.

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• Size is crucial for the same reason a tailored suit is: every cock, like every body, is unique. The right size promotes optimum awareness without being overly intrusive or restrictive.
• Applying the cock ring correctly means focusing your and your partner’s attention effectively onto the “theater of cock”– which may be small in size, compared with the entire human body, but expansive in scale.  In other words, donning a cock ring puts everyone on alert that our cocks are now the biggest and most important things in the room.
• For a long time now I have been shaving my cock and trimming my pubic area, for just this reason: to focus on the theater of cock.  Of course, cock rings— especially the silicon kind— are easier to use in a trimmed and shaved area.

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• It’s always nice then you meet someone with an entire collection of cock-rings.  Sharing them become a lovely extension of sexual hospitality. A sexual host of true generosity might even have several on hand to give as souvenirs— the way Martha Stewart-type hostesses stock guest bathrooms with new toothbrushes that guests can take away. I hope some of this might be helpful.  I am wishing you the best for your article and, as always, your amazing work. Best, __Steve