This style of erotic massage is done slowly. Sensual massage is deeply nurturing and instructive of the many different sensations touch can achieve in your body. Sensual massage may include external anal massage. You probably have much experience directing your attention outside yourself and doing for others. So, you may find it unfamiliar and even uncomfortable to ask for what you want and simply receive without giving back. I assist you in developing your capacity to receive pleasure and to ask for what you want. I encourage you to turn your attention inward (a blindfold can help) and devote all your energy to notice what feels good and to ask for more. Your erection is always welcome and is not required to reach high erotic states.