With the exception of Rugby, it’s hard to imagine any other sport more associated with homosexuality than wrestling. It’s sexy pinning combinations, makes it a source of great erotic delight for many men. I have a mate that is addicted to wanking while he watches his wrestling videos, or his pornography, as he calls it
I was in my mid-20s. I was one of a group of ten guys who got together for a Saturday night of wrestling in the basement gym of one of them. We all stripped down to jockstraps, paired off according to who most closely matched in size, weight, etc., and then wrestled two at a time with the others watching. The rule was that winner would fuck the loser up the ass and the loser would jerk off, while all the others watched. I won my bout (which was the fourth one of the night), fucked the other guy good, and then let him jerk off on my hairy chest. Hottest damn night of sex in my life! Dan
Wrestling with another guy — a total stranger whom I’ve never met before — with us both stripped down to nothing but our jockstraps. Winner fucks the loser up the ass with the both of us still wearing our jocks. It would be even better if there were some other jockstrapped guys there watching us, too. Hank
If you cannot accept every tiny bit of your sexuality, you will never discover your true spirituality. Your sexuality leads to discovering your Spirituality. As men we must present ourselves in both our sexual and our spiritual selves. At the same time we must remain conscious that our spirituality expands and will one day make contact with the entire universe. While our sexual self is limited, our spiritual capacity is utterly vast. Sexually we reach only a few people, while our feelings and especially our thoughts (spirituality) are capable of reaching all. Connecting our spiritual and sexual thoughts is far more powerful and embraces infinitely more, it is also more subtle and has greater possibilities, allowing us to do dream any dream that we want. One day, however, after numerous incarnations and immense spiritual work, our spiritual will activate our sexual instantaneously. As g(o)d’s men we have to learn how to connect our sexual pleasures to our spirituality. We need to be taught this skill; we need guides to show us how. If we don’t our spirituality gets made up for us by other people, and our sexual pleasures are far too fucking sacred for us to allow that do happen. I’m older than you, this is wisdom speaking.
Dear Mr Cox, One of the most important things which happened in the last times, has been knowing about you. Always wanted to know if sex could be spiritual, if souls can make love… if pleasure could be enjoyed in a less instinctive way. Know I know it’s not a dream… you exist! Thanks for sharing so many things with us through your website. It’s incredible. However my dream will become someday truth when I meet you. I’d like to talk about so many things with you. Have you thought about having disciples? somebody hungry of knowledge, willing to learn from zero that sex is not what most people think and make? I guess I can have an appointment with you, as an introductory session, just for asking things and let you diagnose all the expectation and “training” I could need in order to enjoy sex in this tantric way… I guess I’ll be able to do it… me and my partner… I just relocated from France. At the moment I have other priorities while I settle down, but I’m sure I’ll have the honour and pleasure to meet you and realize that what I always dreamt can be true: you exist! and as far as I know you’re the only one, the best one, unique. I recently subscribed to your mailing list, and I’m so pleased that you have new plans and projects. Perhaps I arrived late unfortunately I was not here years ago… but never is late for tantra sex, for a new perspective, for a full experience. Again, Seb, thanks for your work and dedication. Thanks for your website. Thanks for being you. A big hug and all my respect…
All men can experience a sensational orgasm by stimulation of their rosebud. An erection is required, because stimulation of the rosebud combined with cock massage will simply take you to heaven, and back. Pull your pants down and shake you arse. Warm your cheeks by giving yourself a spanking. Remember your intention is to warm your arse up, not to hurt yourself. Now take your pants off and find a place where you can lie down and really relax yourself. Spend about 81 minutes taking huge big breaths and tease/touching your anal lips. There are two muscle rings called sphincters(anal Lips) surrounding the arse opening. They function independently. After the “81 times exercise” rest the tip of your finger on your inner lips about one eighth of an inch inside your arse and press your fingertip against the side, you can clearly feel the second sphincter muscles. They are very close to each other. The external sphincter is controlled by the central nervous system – just like the muscles of the arms.
It’s easy to tense and relax this sphincter whenever you want. The internal sphincter is quite different. This muscle is controlled by the involuntary part of the nervous system, which governs such functions as heartbeat. You will find after some minutes your finger is drawn inside. Put lots of lube on your finger and slowly put your finger a further quarter of an inch inside. Squeeze the other fingers on the same hand against the bit between your arse and your balls. Use your finger as a pen. Slowly and sensually, in your best joined on writing write your inner most secret. Write every letter slowly and sensually. And seriously slowly move your finger in another 1/4 inch.
Write another secret, as you sensually move your finger in another 1/8, another 1/16 another 1/32 another 1/64. The prostate is located only about one knuckle deep. Lift your hand so the outside edge of your little finger presses against your tail bone. Press the end of your little finger against your prostate. Agitate your hand gently. Once inside there are two different sensation for you to experience. If you slowly and sensually move your inserted finger towards the front of your body you will feel a small lump, that’s your prostate. Massage it in small circular motions 81 times to the right, and then 81 times to the left. Repeat this exercise while slightly vibrating your finger, yes 81 times to the right and 81 times to the left. Then slowly and sensually turn your inserted finger to a 90 degrees angel and move your finger backwards towards your tail-bone(coccyx) and massage 81 times to the right and 81 times to the left. In tantra this is the location of your kundalini energy, from where life energy flows.
Remember inside your arse is a very sacred place, a sacred place that holds many secrets to the pleasures of life. Talk to yourself tell yourself how good it feels. Enjoy your anal orgasm. The uncontrollable, juddering, screaming orgasm re-connects us to our original self, where heaven is to bask in Gods love with no need to control, or be described, as anything other than, that that is spiritual. You are most likely to experience an anal orgasm when you are very relaxed, sexually and not putting any pressure on yourself to have one. You need to relax and enjoy being anally satisfied, the anal orgasm will cumm naturally. Many guide books and sex manuals declare that not everyone can experience an anal orgasm, do not believe that bollox. With thanks to Jack for the inspiration.