Soften the time with each other and await the small everlasting orgasmic sensations. the mind wants MORE, BIGGER, DEEPER, LOUDER and NOW. the kundalini wants softer and everlasting.
Do not expect/demand/await/. do not hang on to what you have done, remember/savour/nourish/carry what is has done for you. do not share what you have done with others, share what it has done for you. when these beautiful things happen, you are actually just where god left you anyway before we fucked it up.