Hello Sean, I’m not really qualified to offer anything other than massage. But i would suggest 2 things use a vibration prostate massager and get your doctor to prescribe ciallas. Delayed ejaculation often referred to as DE, has been the subject of very little research, probably because it effects only about 10 man in 100, while it’s counterpart premature ejaculation effects about 75%. Over a period of 25 years I have only ever encountered about 20 men who talked to me about DE. I’m not sure if this is relevant, most were male sex workers, who would have trained them selves to control their ejaculaton. For more info, read this article from the NHS website.