Red tantra, is not so much about the destination as it is about the journey. Procedures and manipulations have evolved over perhaps thousands of years and focus on a giver and a receiver who can alternate these positions during a session for a shared and equal journey.
Most of the procedures and manipulations can be adapted or adjusted for a solo journey (as I have done). Your preparation for relaxing the anus (sphincters) is accurate and your description of how to insert a finger (or your pantra) and what to do with it when it is inserted is also accurate. But tantra does not begin with the first chakra. The first chakra is where you channel energy from the seventh, sixth, and fifth to the fourth or heart chakra, and connect them to the second chakra — the wand of light — via the third before transferring it to the first. You neglected to say how this energy at this juncture combined the yin and the yang components of a man and travels of the spinal nerves to the pineal glad to release serotonin and dopamine. I know this is also a bit much for many who are eager for the destination.When you sent me the pantra several years ago.
I learned to use it — before I always used one or two fingers to dance on my prostate, and could short cut the entire process by achieving sensational orgasms without stroking my cock and ending in either ejaculation or inejacuation (whether I release my semen orf absorbed it has been my choice). Short cutting as you have described. provides a great experience but I assure you though lengthy the more orthodox tantric procedure is more rewarding — by the extraordinary pleasure during an for a long time after, but the great sense of who you are, self appself-appreciationr entire sense of being. As always, I applaud you for your mentoring men to respect and honor who they are and make the most of their potential.
You are absolutely correct in emphasizing that when approaching ones body for any type of self-pleasuring, cleanliness is all important. The body should clean inside and out, the mind should be focused on what you are doing — ambiance is also important, and one must set aside time without any interruptions. Wish we could be face to face — both naked and honor one another with both a session with many plateaus and and the direct and more immediate arrival at rapture. Always here for you. Still in Chicago and very grateful for our past exchanges. The pantra, the three-ring cock enhance, and the focus on the the trinity — faith (the prostate and anal awareness), hope (our balls and what they offer), and finally love (our cocks or wands of true light), thanks for being there and for all that you are and all that you provide Dorje