Balkan Masturbation – Wanking to Make the Crops Grow

“What I’m doing is inventing events that I am afraid of. I go in front of the public and, if I can do it, they can do it, too. That’s why performance art – if it’s good – can be a life-changing experience. This is the function of an artist. I am not a therapist. … Read moreBalkan Masturbation – Wanking to Make the Crops Grow

So you think you can wank?

Through association with The New School of Erotic Touch and The Orgasmic Yoga Institute,  CUMM UK and Mr Cox offers hundreds of hours of video classes, teachings and clips that explore Eros in a healthy, informative medium. Based on modern Sexological Bodywork, Somatics and ancient practices from Tantra and Taoism, these wonderful video courses provide … Read moreSo you think you can wank?

misconception about men’s masturbating habits

A study highlighted by Michael Shelton in Psychology Today, found a great misconception about men’s masturbating habits is that if they’re in a sexually healthy relationship, they’ll masturbate less. However this isn’t the case. “Masturbation isn’t a feeble substitute for sex with a partner — a common belief I hear often in treatment. If this were true, … Read moremisconception about men’s masturbating habits

Healing Your Root Chakra

Do you know that area between your arse and your balls? Good man, your perineum. Place your three middle fingers of your left hand there and start to breathe deeply as your vibrate a millimetre per minute towards your anal hips. Use the same fingers on your right hand to vibrate a millimetre per minute towards your 3rd eye chakra. Without actually touching them.

Continue to trace a map around your rosebuddy without actually touching it. As your breathing deepens, tighten and relax your PC MUSCLE. Increase the rate of your vibration. After some extraordinary breathing and vibrations you will notice a hard ridge will appear around your rosebud. If you place the base of your thumb very lightly, without actually touching, and vibrate your newly found root chakra pleasure, you will feel yourself connect to the earth, and feel very grounded.

Red tantra, is not so much about the destination as it is about the journey. Procedures and manipulations have evolved over perhaps thousands of years and focus on a giver and a receiver who can alternate these positions during a session for a shared and equal journey.

Most of the procedures and manipulations can be adapted or adjusted for a solo journey (as I have done). Your preparation for relaxing the anus (sphincters) is accurate and your description of how to insert a finger (or your pantra) and what to do with it when it is inserted is also accurate. But tantra does not begin with the first chakra. The first chakra is where you channel energy from the seventh, sixth, and fifth to the fourth or heart chakra, and connect them to the second chakra — the wand of light — via the third before transferring it to the first. You neglected to say how this energy at this juncture combined the yin and the yang components of a man and travels of the spinal nerves to the pineal glad to release serotonin and dopamine. I know this is also a bit much for many who are eager for the destination.When you sent me the pantra several years ago.

I learned to use it — before I always used one or two fingers to dance on my prostate, and could short cut the entire process by achieving sensational orgasms without stroking my cock and ending in either ejaculation or inejacuation (whether I release my semen orf absorbed it has been my choice). Short cutting as you have described. provides a great experience but I assure you though lengthy the more orthodox tantric procedure is more rewarding — by the extraordinary pleasure during an for a long time after, but the great sense of who you are, self appself-appreciationr entire sense of being. As always, I applaud you for your mentoring men to respect and honor who they are and make the most of their potential.

You are absolutely correct in emphasizing that when approaching ones body for any type of self-pleasuring, cleanliness is all important. The body should clean inside and out, the mind should be focused on what you are doing — ambiance is also important, and one must set aside time without any interruptions. Wish we could be face to face — both naked and honor one another with both a session with many plateaus and and the direct and more immediate arrival at rapture. Always here for you. Still in Chicago and very grateful for our past exchanges. The pantra, the three-ring cock enhance, and the focus on the the trinity — faith (the prostate and anal awareness), hope (our balls and what they offer), and finally love (our cocks or wands of true light), thanks for being there and for all that you are and all that you provide Dorje

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BENEFITS? MALE MASTURBATION IN A MIRROR

To benefit more from wanking with a mirror make sure you focus on the parts of your body you like the most. Before you begin your ritual make a list of the 12 parts of your body you like the most. Be verbal with your self. Tell yourself how beautiful that particular part of your … Read moreBENEFITS? MALE MASTURBATION IN A MIRROR

The Happy Ejaculation Class

Happy Ejaculation Video Class, with gallery. In this video class, a very sexy mature daddy demonstrates the joys of mindful masculine ejaculation.

Masturbatory sexual acts of pleasure and an eventual deep spiritual ha-penis. To begin your voyage of hap-penis simple get your cock out and smile.

Core Practices of Porn Yoga

Core Practices of Porn Yoga : Porn Yoga is a practice-based approach to masturbating where we place part of our attention on the porn and part on the sustained sexual arousal in our bodies The immediate result is increased feelings of pleasure. Over time, this erotic practice offers us the opportunity to make profound and meaningful … Read moreCore Practices of Porn Yoga

most difficult task

It is also good to love: because love is difficult. For one human being to love another human being: that is perhaps the most difficult task that has been entrusted to us, the ultimate task, the final test and proof, the work for which all other work is merely preparation. That is why young people, who are beginners in everything, are not yet capable of love: it is something they must learn. With their whole being, with all their forces, gathered around their solitary, anxious, upward-beating heart, they must learn to love. But learning-time is always a long, secluded time, and therefore loving, for a long time ahead and far on into life, is: solitude, a heightened and deepened kind of aloneness for the person who loves.

Loving does not at first mean merging, surrendering, and uniting with another person (for what would a union be of two people who are unclarified, unfinished, and still incoherent?), it is a high inducement for the individual to ripen, to become something in himself, to become world, to become world in himself for the sake of another person; it is a great, demanding claim on him, something that chooses him and calls him to vast distances. Only in this sense, as the task of working on themselves (“to hearken and to hammer day and night”), may young people use the love that is given to them. Merging and surrendering and every kind of communion is not for them (who must still, for a long, long time, save and gather themselves); it is the ultimate, is perhaps that for which human lives are as yet barely large enough.

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Rainer Maria Rilke, (1875 – 1926) considered one of the German language’s greatest 20th century poets. His two most famous verse sequences are the Sonnets to Orpheus and the Duino Elegies; his two most famous prose works are the Letters to a Young Poet, which is probably written to a military lover rather than what is suggested and the semi-autobiographical The Notebooks of Malte Laurids Brigge. He also wrote more than 400 poems in French, dedicated to his homeland of choice, the canton of Valais in Switzerland. I think it is generally excepted that he loved men, and that was the major influence on his work. Doesn’t always translate, but if you think of a big fat french military cock when you read his work, it will give you a slightly deeper insight.

the importance of male ejaculation

I have been banging on for more than 20 years about the importance of male ejaculation. great to see the mainstream press finally reporting research like this.Lets keep our fingers(or maybe even legs) crossed and wish that the “Prostate Charities” might start telling men about this type of knowledge, as well. There is a more comprehensive … Read morethe importance of male ejaculation

Does masturbation lead to sperm loss?

Masturbation is simply defined as the process of self-stimulation for achieving sexual pleasure. Today sadly masturbation and the subject of it discussion has become a social taboo. Masturbation in many cultures is considered a sin! and the very topic has a lot of associated negativity with that goes with it. One of the most popular … Read moreDoes masturbation lead to sperm loss?

Celebrity Cock John Mayer on masturbation

“I have masturbated myself out of serious problems in my life. The phone doesn’t pick up because I’m masturbating. And I have excused myself at the oddest times so as to not make mistakes. If Tiger Woods only knew when to jerk off. It has a true market value, like gold bullion. First of all, … Read moreCelebrity Cock John Mayer on masturbation

Male Masturbation Afterplay

Male Masturbation can be divided into three components: foreplay, ejaculation, and afterplay.

Foreplay, you begin to feel more relaxed. You might even watch some porn, gently rubbing your cock through your pants. You might think about some past sexual experience as you feel yourself getting a really strong erection. You drift to thinking of some really sexy person you really fancy, now your cock is really throbbing. Ejaculation itself is what most people consider the pleasure of masturbation. However, what happens after ejaculation can be even more important emotionally and pleasurable physically. This post ejaculation activity is known as “after play”. After you ejaculate, desires and energy spurts out of your body. It’s like a blast of your energy into the universe, leaving your cock completely flaccid. Over long periods of time, your cock eventually begins to think that this is it’s natural state. It is really important that men find a more positive condition to rest their erections, rather than totally get rid of it. Continue to stretch your cock after ejaculation. Kneading the shaft strongly from the base to the end of the shaft. As you do this breathe deeply and think about what you will be doing with your next full erection. This pulling and kneading will loosen penile tissue to facilite engorgement encouraging your penis to accept greater amounts of blood. When you train your penis to accept more amounts of blood, erections are produced more easily without any effort.  After after play you should conclude your ritual with the big draw technique.

In his book Secrets of Better Sex, Dr. Joel Block provides five “do’s and don’ts ” for enjoying afterplay

• Don’t use afterplay as a “sexual postmortem.”
• Don’t air sexual grievances or complaints.
• Do use this intimate time to express sexual feelings, thoughts, and desires that you’ve not previously shared.
• Don’t discuss problems with your job, your finances, or your children.
• Do cuddle and caress for at least five minutes.
• Do say “I love you’.

The Most Powerful Orgasm Known To Man ?

The manufacturer, award winning Swedish adult industry giant, LELO claim that this sex toy allows the Most Powerful Orgasm Known To Man With the potential to increase the size and intensity of the male climax by 33%, this remote control prostate massager offers the world’s most explosive orgasm. Hugo is expertly sized to provide prostate … Read moreThe Most Powerful Orgasm Known To Man ?

palace of dreams and pleasure

Just wanted to say that I like your new and ever expanding website. I know you said a year ago that you had lost the old one in the expanse of the universe…….but you have rebuilt it and it looks different, a little less black background but a lot of good stories and information and every link still leads to a new and exciting place, like a sex maze.

Its obviously by you but its a different shape. It must have been a lot of hard work. I have a question, well more of a thought…..as I grow older I find that I don’t want to have full on sex with men and dont….but I do want to be intimate, touching massage, working on each others jade stem…of course, which is what we do with you and thank the gods for you, you have given me a safe and nurturing place to find such amazing male intimacy. You have provided a great and safe gift for all men. when i was younger I cruised areas when I was horny, not a safe option.

I have used sex lines but they are expensive and again just about raw sex or pure fantasy and not a safe option nor a wise one.

Sometimes I want to touch and intimacy with men more often that once a month in Mr Cox`s palace of dreams and pleasure. I have visited (a place) once and its a real sex place, not very intimate or friendly and lots of unsafe sex happens and older guys like me, are not really that welcome. I stayed 20 minutes and left.

I have stopped watching porn, because your groups have taught me to be more real about sex, so as I am watching porn less my desire for real intimacy is returning and so I have greater need. Plus with no porn, I have started to have really hot dreams, which I have not had for years….amazing. I have put `jerk off/ masturbation groups for men` into search engines, I think they exist in fantasy but not in reality. Maybe San Francisco was the only place they actually happened as a reaction to AIDS…who knows. I also like the `no lips below the hips` idea, even though oral sex is amazing it can be intimidating if expected. Gay Sex groups/leather clubs and the like push away str8/bi/health conscious gay males because of their expectation of full sex or the risk of STIs and the expectation of a young body and a hard cock, and also the big performance thing hides a million anxieties.

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I don’t want to take viagra, I would rather have a head massage. apart from your wonderful group are there groups  guys who meet to touch and wank and relax in the safety of a private home or is this an urban myth…it might be just you? Perhaps the sauna scene is where such intimacy happens, I don’t really know. These are my thoughts and I don’t expect you to solve them or come up with an answer but I thought I would put the thoughts out there as I cant be the only guy, bi/gay/str8 who would just like some mutual masturbation/ erotic touch without the worry that STIs bring, and that it happens in a safe place. I have been in a men`s group for 6 years and occasionally talked about such things but such real sex talk is rare and not always appropriate or what men want in that therapeutic setting.

I know you have talked about having a spirituality group but I think that spritualising sex moves it away from the reality of intimacy.

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The church fears sex so turns it into some kind of intimate god talk but with your pants firmly on, when in reality men want someone to touch them for real, only then do they see the divine. Real divinity cannot be separated from real physicality. As I don’t believe there is such a thing as an eternal soul separate from the body then divinity and sexuality and physical intimacy are the same and interchangeable, the real trinity of love. I think a group of men talking about their desires and anxieties and real needs and fears is missing.

If we talk about it then men may gravitate to meeting that desire and need for intimacy, who knows…..So I have said it and its out there flying around the heavens. so much love power and respect to you mr sex wizard, and mr love men wizard.   Marco del rey

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Real divinity cannot be separated from real physicality. Marco Del Rey explains as I don’t believe there is such a thing as an eternal soul separate from the body then divinity and sexuality and physical intimacy are the same and interchangeable, the real trinity of love.

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