Tiger Balm


Hi Seb, I’m sure like a lot of guys I use different cock rings for various reasons. But it is important to get the fit right. Too tight and I find it stops me getting a good erection and good ejaculation. When I’m out, naked, lying in the sun or for all day wear – when I want to feel that tightness around my balls, metal is best.  Slightly more comfortable – or if you’re going through a security screen – rubber works well.  When I fancy a quick wank and am already stiff, so can’t get on anything solid, I snap on a leather strap.  Following on from that and especially if I’m having a long edging session I like to use a leather or cord thong to separate my balls – it is also easy to loosen or tighten depending on your mood. This is also my preference when I’ve been using my pump, my balls are hanging low and need a bit of restraining. This last also produces the greatest amount of cum and best ejaculation. Lube is important too, and when using the pump I liberally smear my balls and cock with Tiger Balm.  The menthol/camphor in it give a great cooling/burning sensation. Otherwise Elemis instant refreshing gel has similar ingredients and gives similar results, but is  more water soluble and not so messy if I’m just having a wank.  Also gives great results on your nipples. Hope this helps you, and thanks for your pages which I’ve found inspiring and have often started me off on a long wank session. Keep strokin’ strokerbo2001


Qi-Gung Edging

Edging is the sport of the gods. I sometimes spend hours, bringing my self really close, then relaxing and taking the most deepest breaths of my life. I let my cock return to a flaccid state while tickling my rosebud. I repeat the ritual at least 81 times. Edging : Bring yourself close and then start all over again, Edging yourself to joy, Edging yourself to pleasure, Edging yourself to a greater ejaculation Tell us about your experience with edging. Please leave your reply below


spurting & shooting


Hey, I felt like I was having an anal orgasm the other day, with all the signs/feelings etc that others have described. However, each time I orgasmed the fluid spurting from my flaccid cock was very thin and colourless. When loads started coming out I thought I was pissing myself so went to the bog, and I did urinate, but I’m not sure whether the two are connected as I had been at it for a few hours! Therefore, when loads started spurting and shooting everywhere was this cum or piss? I am a bit worried if it is the latter. Some people have said the ejaculate is very runny but does this sound correct? Any thoughts much appreciated!




Doctors are hailing a new drug that can prevent premature ejaculation extending the length of sexual intercourse. Dapoxetine, marketed as Priligy (among and other brands) is the first compound developed specially for the treatment of premature ejaculation (PE) in men 18–64 years old. Dapoxetine works by inhibiting theserotonin transporter, increasing serotonin’s action at the post synaptic cleft, and as a consequence promoting ejaculatory delay.  As a member of selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor (SSRI) family, dapoxetine was initially created as an antidepressant. However, unlike other SSRIs, dapoxetine is absorbed and eliminated rapidly in the body. Its fast acting property makes it suitable for the treatment of PE but not as an antidepressant. It is extremely expensive in the Uk, about £70 for three tablets, but no doubt supplies coming from such places as India, will force the price downwards. Dapoxetine is chemically similar to a family of antidepressants called SSRIs (selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors).  These types of antidepressants are known to have an impact on ejaculation.


Trials of dapoxetine have shown a trebling of the duration of intercourse. The beneficial effect occurred after the first dose and increased over the study period. Sex educationalist Seb Cox commenting on the research said “Premature ejaculation is a huge problem. All men suffer in varying degrees, and as men we are often very uncomfortable talking about sex, it’s very much a hidden problem. I have been writing for years about the possibility that some anti depressant drugs seemed to have the effect of delaying ejaculation, just as this drug is doing. Now that dapoxetine is available I think it will have an even bigger effect than Viagra on how men have sex, and of course, just like Viagra, few will admit to using it, and the manufacturers would never suggest using it for recreational effect.

delayed ejaculation

close 2 ejaculation

mature-45Sometimes when I come extremely close to ejaculation and feel a small discharge of seminal fluid coming up, I loosen my sphincter and body muscles suddenly to stop ejaculation. Then a totally different flavor of a new orgasm comes. The source of this orgasm is the prostate-perineum-anal area. I noticed that when I come, my anus contracts and tightens up, this pushes my orgasms beyond the normal limit. JJ