I see Tao(Big Lingam) Tantra as a guiding direction, an inspirational source of infinite arousal. What I love about Tao Tantra is that it’s for everyone, and has something to say to everyone. All I needed to know was that Tao tantra existed and then I automatically become tantric. It’s was very much of that moment, that realisation that I was not alone in my sacred dream. Big lingam tantra is always there to remind me that it’s all about my intention to excel, at making my dream. It’s not for me about authentic techniques, as I feel techniques are only there to guide my spirituality and sexuality into a celebration of what is the very essence of me. I felt encouraged not to hide behind my “technique” but to use it to allow myself a deeper sexual experience. I learnt to put sex and spirituality into context so that I could experience orgasms that could only be described as uncontrollable, juddering, screaming that re-connected me to my original self, where heaven was to bask in Gods love with no need to be described, as anything other than, that, that is tantric. Big lingam tantra(Tao Tantra) was my dream, that I gave myself permission to wake up to, allowing me to awaken to a liberated sexuality- a spiritual honesty that allowed my soul lots of love, luck and lingam. We meet regularly in Central London to massage each other’s cock, with trust, truth and respect. Click here to join us.