Seb, Your website is amazing and very interesting. I have learnt a lot in just reading through the letters and correspondence. Sex is a very powerful language and if you are into the tantric arts even more so.
I am a practitioner of Tai Chi ( Taoist ) and have had the most amazing sex after practising the art – I always think of my Tai Chi as a meditation in any case I used to take great delight in “milking” my lover and stopping just before the point of orgasm – This would sometimes go on for hours until such time that he would beg me to let him come. It was then I would open my legs and let him fuck me and FUCK me he used too.