about the gay scene in the uk

Just read your piece on Cock Spinning Chakras , wow ! sounds like that it would be a wonderful experience. As when I wank ,I kind of try to do it myself even when I started wanking. Another class I was really interested in was the Hugs and Cuddles, my god I have’nt had one for over 18 months and I feel like it’s killing me inside.

I used to go on the Gay scene but have found nothing but hurt and emotional pain, yeah you might get the cock and cuddle thing , but I always turns out to be a lie and means nothing to them. I wouldn’t mind so much if I was the one who started the one night stand, but i’ts always seems to be them, and I bloody hard work to pick-up and even harder to get work to get me into bed!

That’s why after what seems a life time of hurt and lies, I will never go on the scene again. My so called mates don’t seem to understand that enough is enough and I find those bars emotionally dangerous for me.

So i’m on a new journey now of meeting and discussing and also laughing with other like minded gay men. in a completely different environment. I really do hope I get accepted, as something inside me knows it will be the life changing experience I’ve been searching for (over the net 6 months) other gay/ bi/ straight men who are also of a similar mind. Sorry for any bad grammar and spelling mistakes, I had to write this from the heart straight away.
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  1. Thank you both, for these words. I realised long ago that no matter how hard I tried, not to be me, that I would never fit into the scene. I have no idea if this is a gay ‘thing’ but from the outside looking in the obsessions about sex, the body beautiful or superficial point scoring always set the bar too high. I have Spina Bifida, not severely, but enough to have left my body with plenty of surgical scarring, a wonky walk and complications with my waterworks. Meeting guys on line fills me with terror because eventually there will have to be the big reveal – which has gone horribly wrong a number of times. So as I’ve resigned myself to being alone, I figured I’d better start liking myself and finding out what is important to me. Exploring my spirituality, more recently Buddhism and especially chanting has helped me discover I have a place in this world. I have a choice; to either engage fully with life or withdraw from it. I’ve chosen to explore and enjoy. The big, fabulous gay scene that I was so desperate to be part of; I can now see, is a pretty shallow and restricting masquerade. Instead of trying to live a life, I’m now actually living it.
    Thanks Mr Cox, I shall look into the Mindfulness Meditation.

  2. Hello Chris, Fully agree with you about the gay scene. I feel really sorry for young men, who are just coming out and trying the gay scene for the first time. I have meet many who have been totally fucked up, both mentally and physically by the drugs and the exploitation involved in the scene. Why is the “gay community” not speaking out about this?

    But there is hope. A new scene is emerging, most through the meetup website. In London fo example there is
    The Brotherhood of Pleasure : https://www.meetup.com/BIG-LINGAM-TANTRA-LONDON/
    Naked Yoga Classes for Men @ https://www.meetup.com/naked-warriors-uk/
    Dance Out Loud 5 Rhythms Class – London @ https://www.meetup.com/The-Dance-Out-Loud-Group/
    Loving Men Meetup Group @ https://www.meetup.com/LovingMenMen/
    London Gay Bi Trans Men’s Mindfulness Meditation Group @ https://www.meetup.com/Buddhist-Meditation-for-Gay-and-Bisexual-Men/

    Good luck on your sacred journey…

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